"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My newest umm....situation.

toddC

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Okay, as you guys know, I usually have more of problems than anything else however this weekend is getting me quite exited. Heres why:

Its homecoming weekend! I know of 4 girls that 100% I can get with. I also know of a party that I'll be attending 100% on Saturday night and I know that atleast 3/4 of these girls will be there.

Now heres my situation here...I really want to get with 2 of the girls but I don't know if getting with both of them in the same night would do anything but ruin further chances of a LTR with either one of them. What do you guys think I should do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by toddC
Okay, as you guys know, I usually have more of problems than anything else however this weekend is getting me quite exited. Heres why:

Its homecoming weekend! I know of 4 girls that 100% I can get with. I also know of a party that I'll be attending 100% on Saturday night and I know that atleast 3/4 of these girls will be there.

Now heres my situation here...I really want to get with 2 of the girls but I don't know if getting with both of them in the same night would do anything but ruin further chances of a LTR with either one of them. What do you guys think I should do?
If you want a LTR, don't. If you want ass, go for it.
 

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I say go for it.

An LTR won't work if you base it on lies. By laying them both in the same night, they will know exactly who you are. So there won't be a lot of 'drama' in the future.
 

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F*ck em all. You are your own priority. They are not your priority. Please yourself firstly.

You might find out one of em has really stinky bad breath in the process, easily eliminating her. Seriously dude, try to get some ass, and then focus on a LTR. It's not a bad way to build on one.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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alright, thanks a lot guys. I'll please myself first and see where it takes me :)
 
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