Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My newest umm....situation.

toddC

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Okay, as you guys know, I usually have more of problems than anything else however this weekend is getting me quite exited. Heres why:

Its homecoming weekend! I know of 4 girls that 100% I can get with. I also know of a party that I'll be attending 100% on Saturday night and I know that atleast 3/4 of these girls will be there.

Now heres my situation here...I really want to get with 2 of the girls but I don't know if getting with both of them in the same night would do anything but ruin further chances of a LTR with either one of them. What do you guys think I should do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by toddC
Okay, as you guys know, I usually have more of problems than anything else however this weekend is getting me quite exited. Heres why:

Its homecoming weekend! I know of 4 girls that 100% I can get with. I also know of a party that I'll be attending 100% on Saturday night and I know that atleast 3/4 of these girls will be there.

Now heres my situation here...I really want to get with 2 of the girls but I don't know if getting with both of them in the same night would do anything but ruin further chances of a LTR with either one of them. What do you guys think I should do?
If you want a LTR, don't. If you want ass, go for it.
 

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I say go for it.

An LTR won't work if you base it on lies. By laying them both in the same night, they will know exactly who you are. So there won't be a lot of 'drama' in the future.
 

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F*ck em all. You are your own priority. They are not your priority. Please yourself firstly.

You might find out one of em has really stinky bad breath in the process, easily eliminating her. Seriously dude, try to get some ass, and then focus on a LTR. It's not a bad way to build on one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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alright, thanks a lot guys. I'll please myself first and see where it takes me :)
 
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