"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My mom said i look like am homeless

sosousage

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please take care of your look and get a good job because i want to be proud of my son because i cant be proud of myself
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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touma.akagi

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If your clothing actually looks like rags, dust, pillow cases and boogers, then yes, you desperately need some new clothes. If you aren't already practicing basic hygiene, then yeah, you're not going to get very far.

Some men smell awful and still get women. But chances are they dress well. But these men are the exception, not the rule. You need to take care of all aspects of your hygiene. Shower daily or every 2 days. Use deodorant. Figure out whether you're going to shave or grow a beard, you need to choose one. Either don't shave or shave every day. Style and/or comb your hair some way that looks decent. Brush your damn teeth, you only get one set. Don't smoke or do meth, that will ruin your teeth.

You're welcome.
 

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If your clothing actually looks like rags, dust, pillow cases and boogers, then yes, you desperately need some new clothes. If you aren't already practicing basic hygiene, then yeah, you're not going to get very far.

Some men smell awful and still get women. But chances are they dress well. But these men are the exception, not the rule. You need to take care of all aspects of your hygiene. Shower daily or every 2 days. Use deodorant. Figure out whether you're going to shave or grow a beard, you need to choose one. Either don't shave or shave every day. Style and/or comb your hair some way that looks decent. Brush your damn teeth, you only get one set. Don't smoke or do meth, that will ruin your teeth.

You're welcome.
and you need to learn coding better
 

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translation to english:
please take care of your look and get a good job because i want to be proud of my son because i cant be proud of myself[/QUOTE

I thought you lived in your car
 

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Did she start singing this?

"He's homeless....he's homeless...la da dee la di da, la Da dee la di da..."

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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