"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my message to a girl in friendster.

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Hi guys, this is wad i type to a girl who check me out after i checked her profile in friendster.com. Btw my profile is purposefully made boring as i think its not a great place to make new friends. And here it goes.

"Hey hey, did u just check out my profile? i charge 1 dollar
for that alright. i know its a really boring profile
by the way.. and if u agree, wow we sure think alike. great...

im curious... isnt it tiring to check on everyone
that viewed ur profile?

damn, i just hope that u would turn out to be a
stalker ok.. hahaa..

talk to u again, and please remind me to give u my
bank account no. so u can transfer the cash."

And guess what she replied? A "oh?"

I gonna need help from you guys here. Whats my mistakes in this message??

i guess i write too much for the first message.

Btw advises for internet dating will be appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you sold yourslef short, boring profile i know we agree, find a nice line.
My profile is unique do you like it?

To much spam also, i dont like online dating myself, dont think there is a definitive answer, but i dont think selling yourself short is it, put it that way.
 
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Ya... overall its pretty barney.

Its like you smelled what C/F was, one time while walking by a hot-dog stand. And now your trying to re-create it, w/o any understanding of what being "cool" is.

Cut it in half, and make it more Suave/Bad-ass. Too hokey'
 
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Spidy R said:
talk to u again, and please remind me to give u my
bank account no. so u can transfer the cash."
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THAT WAS SOOOOO RANDOM.
 
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Its has darklight put, c&f ripped and pasted with an hope one will get a result.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DarkLight said:
Ya... overall its pretty barney.

Its like you smelled what C/F was, one time while walking by a hot-dog stand. And now your trying to re-create it, w/o any understanding of what being "cool" is.

Cut it in half, and make it more Suave/Bad-ass. Too hokey'
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Alright, i kinda find it weird now after looking at the message i typed to her.. As if, yeah sounds like a cut and paste sentence. Ok, so its better to just type "Hey whats up! Did you just checked on my profile? My profiles interesting, isnt it? Taking a second look of mine, yeah you better go edit your profile now.".
 
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