Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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my message to a girl in friendster.

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Hi guys, this is wad i type to a girl who check me out after i checked her profile in friendster.com. Btw my profile is purposefully made boring as i think its not a great place to make new friends. And here it goes.

"Hey hey, did u just check out my profile? i charge 1 dollar
for that alright. i know its a really boring profile
by the way.. and if u agree, wow we sure think alike. great...

im curious... isnt it tiring to check on everyone
that viewed ur profile?

damn, i just hope that u would turn out to be a
stalker ok.. hahaa..

talk to u again, and please remind me to give u my
bank account no. so u can transfer the cash."

And guess what she replied? A "oh?"

I gonna need help from you guys here. Whats my mistakes in this message??

i guess i write too much for the first message.

Btw advises for internet dating will be appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you sold yourslef short, boring profile i know we agree, find a nice line.
My profile is unique do you like it?

To much spam also, i dont like online dating myself, dont think there is a definitive answer, but i dont think selling yourself short is it, put it that way.
 

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Ya... overall its pretty barney.

Its like you smelled what C/F was, one time while walking by a hot-dog stand. And now your trying to re-create it, w/o any understanding of what being "cool" is.

Cut it in half, and make it more Suave/Bad-ass. Too hokey'
 

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Spidy R said:
talk to u again, and please remind me to give u my
bank account no. so u can transfer the cash."
THAT WAS SOOOOO RANDOM.
 

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Its has darklight put, c&f ripped and pasted with an hope one will get a result.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DarkLight said:
Ya... overall its pretty barney.

Its like you smelled what C/F was, one time while walking by a hot-dog stand. And now your trying to re-create it, w/o any understanding of what being "cool" is.

Cut it in half, and make it more Suave/Bad-ass. Too hokey'
Alright, i kinda find it weird now after looking at the message i typed to her.. As if, yeah sounds like a cut and paste sentence. Ok, so its better to just type "Hey whats up! Did you just checked on my profile? My profiles interesting, isnt it? Taking a second look of mine, yeah you better go edit your profile now.".
 
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