"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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my message to a girl in friendster.

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Hi guys, this is wad i type to a girl who check me out after i checked her profile in friendster.com. Btw my profile is purposefully made boring as i think its not a great place to make new friends. And here it goes.

"Hey hey, did u just check out my profile? i charge 1 dollar
for that alright. i know its a really boring profile
by the way.. and if u agree, wow we sure think alike. great...

im curious... isnt it tiring to check on everyone
that viewed ur profile?

damn, i just hope that u would turn out to be a
stalker ok.. hahaa..

talk to u again, and please remind me to give u my
bank account no. so u can transfer the cash."

And guess what she replied? A "oh?"

I gonna need help from you guys here. Whats my mistakes in this message??

i guess i write too much for the first message.

Btw advises for internet dating will be appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you sold yourslef short, boring profile i know we agree, find a nice line.
My profile is unique do you like it?

To much spam also, i dont like online dating myself, dont think there is a definitive answer, but i dont think selling yourself short is it, put it that way.
 
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Ya... overall its pretty barney.

Its like you smelled what C/F was, one time while walking by a hot-dog stand. And now your trying to re-create it, w/o any understanding of what being "cool" is.

Cut it in half, and make it more Suave/Bad-ass. Too hokey'
 
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Spidy R said:
talk to u again, and please remind me to give u my
bank account no. so u can transfer the cash."
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THAT WAS SOOOOO RANDOM.
 
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Its has darklight put, c&f ripped and pasted with an hope one will get a result.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DarkLight said:
Ya... overall its pretty barney.

Its like you smelled what C/F was, one time while walking by a hot-dog stand. And now your trying to re-create it, w/o any understanding of what being "cool" is.

Cut it in half, and make it more Suave/Bad-ass. Too hokey'
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Alright, i kinda find it weird now after looking at the message i typed to her.. As if, yeah sounds like a cut and paste sentence. Ok, so its better to just type "Hey whats up! Did you just checked on my profile? My profiles interesting, isnt it? Taking a second look of mine, yeah you better go edit your profile now.".
 
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