"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My LTR GF is currently reading 'My Horizontal Life A collection of one-night stands"

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I've been fvcking this girl for 10 months. We've been exclusive for 5 months. Past the 'i love you stage' and have never had a fight. So were doing really great. Most successful relationship I've ever had, everything feels so right.

One day she was all excited because she heard about this book, 'My Horizontal Life: A Collection of One-Night Stands'.

She actually pulled me into the book store to help her find it so she can buy it. I looked at it and was turned off by her and was like, forget buying books, download that for free.

She asks, "will you help me?" I'm like, "yeah sure." (but i never looked, on purpose).

Weeks later, when i thought she'd forget about it. Shes like "I finally bought the book!"

I'm usually really good about not being jealous or feeling like a ctump. But this is irking me a lil. My girlfriend is reading a book with detailed one-night stands stories in it every night.

I told her that I'm going to start studying, 'How to manipulate women and have multiple sexual relationships?' while she reads her book. Was that too harsh? Or should i really not care - It turns me off though?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think you're over-reacting.

Read what the book is about and some reviews on Amazon.
This isn't an instructional manual for girls on having one night stands (not that they need one, just dress sexy, go to a club, and say yes), its supposed to be a comical collection of stories by a female comedian, and apparently most of the ONS don't happen anyway.

Do you watch porn? Do you like comedy? Well this is just a combination of the two for women. She probably wants to read it because she heard from friends that it was funny.

If you want to do see it from her perspective, read "I hope they serve beer in hell" by Tucker Max. Not only does the guy have some incredibly funny stories, but quite a few are about him ****ing lots of chicks.

It sounds like you and your girl have a good thing going and she just wants to read a funny book. Don't make a big deal out of it.
 
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It's only a book! Women like to read things like that. What, do you think after she reads this book she is gonna want ONS? Hell, I come on here and read crazy sh!t all the time.
 
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Does she read Cosmo? or any other mags like that? Have you seen the crap in those mags?

If she reads that kind of stuff I'm not sure there is any book on the planet you need to worry about.
 
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Youre an idiot. Read ( or re-read) Pooks posts on how sexual women are. Or better still pick up any female interest magazine and have a read. See what the main themes are. Sex is one of the major ones. Telling her you're reading 'How to manipulate women and have multiple sexual relationships?' will translate to her: 1) You're weak 2) You're insecure and most importantly 3) You're low status
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If the women read books, then they will start to get ideas.
If they get ideas, they might get the idea that they should be let out of the kitchen.
If they are let out of the kitchen then they might want to vote.

Oh wait...

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Read the book after she finishes. It is the only way for you to allay your concerns.
 
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The book makes her horny. Women like reading their porn, thus the proliferation of romance novels. Don't stifle the experience for her; just enjoy her extra horniness for yourself. Always encourage a girl to fantasize; you are the one who benefits. Fantasizing is not reality, and it is not planning to do something; it's just fun thoughts. A lot of women have a rape fantasy, but that does not mean that they actually want to be raped. It's just fantasy.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
The book makes her horny. Women like reading their porn, thus the proliferation of romance novels. Don't stifle the experience for her; just enjoy her extra horniness for yourself. Always encourage a girl to fantasize; you are the one who benefits. Fantasizing is not reality, and it is not planning to do something; it's just fun thoughts. A lot of women have a rape fantasy, but that does not mean that they actually want to be raped. It's just fantasy.
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Exactly, its only entertainment!!
 
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Thanks for the input fellas. I dropped the subject with her, you all were right. She actually encouraged me to read Tucker Max's 'I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell'. haha.

time to move on. again, thanks.
 
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be thankful that she does not have a chapter in the book devoted to her exploits.:nervous:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't worry about it man.. my gf reads all sorts of erotic/fantasy novels and stuff. Its just entertainment for girls nothing else.
 
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