Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My LTR GF is currently reading 'My Horizontal Life A collection of one-night stands"

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I've been fvcking this girl for 10 months. We've been exclusive for 5 months. Past the 'i love you stage' and have never had a fight. So were doing really great. Most successful relationship I've ever had, everything feels so right.

One day she was all excited because she heard about this book, 'My Horizontal Life: A Collection of One-Night Stands'.

She actually pulled me into the book store to help her find it so she can buy it. I looked at it and was turned off by her and was like, forget buying books, download that for free.

She asks, "will you help me?" I'm like, "yeah sure." (but i never looked, on purpose).

Weeks later, when i thought she'd forget about it. Shes like "I finally bought the book!"

I'm usually really good about not being jealous or feeling like a ctump. But this is irking me a lil. My girlfriend is reading a book with detailed one-night stands stories in it every night.

I told her that I'm going to start studying, 'How to manipulate women and have multiple sexual relationships?' while she reads her book. Was that too harsh? Or should i really not care - It turns me off though?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I think you're over-reacting.

Read what the book is about and some reviews on Amazon.
This isn't an instructional manual for girls on having one night stands (not that they need one, just dress sexy, go to a club, and say yes), its supposed to be a comical collection of stories by a female comedian, and apparently most of the ONS don't happen anyway.

Do you watch porn? Do you like comedy? Well this is just a combination of the two for women. She probably wants to read it because she heard from friends that it was funny.

If you want to do see it from her perspective, read "I hope they serve beer in hell" by Tucker Max. Not only does the guy have some incredibly funny stories, but quite a few are about him ****ing lots of chicks.

It sounds like you and your girl have a good thing going and she just wants to read a funny book. Don't make a big deal out of it.
 
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It's only a book! Women like to read things like that. What, do you think after she reads this book she is gonna want ONS? Hell, I come on here and read crazy sh!t all the time.
 
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Does she read Cosmo? or any other mags like that? Have you seen the crap in those mags?

If she reads that kind of stuff I'm not sure there is any book on the planet you need to worry about.
 
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Youre an idiot. Read ( or re-read) Pooks posts on how sexual women are. Or better still pick up any female interest magazine and have a read. See what the main themes are. Sex is one of the major ones. Telling her you're reading 'How to manipulate women and have multiple sexual relationships?' will translate to her: 1) You're weak 2) You're insecure and most importantly 3) You're low status
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If the women read books, then they will start to get ideas.
If they get ideas, they might get the idea that they should be let out of the kitchen.
If they are let out of the kitchen then they might want to vote.

Oh wait...

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Read the book after she finishes. It is the only way for you to allay your concerns.
 
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The book makes her horny. Women like reading their porn, thus the proliferation of romance novels. Don't stifle the experience for her; just enjoy her extra horniness for yourself. Always encourage a girl to fantasize; you are the one who benefits. Fantasizing is not reality, and it is not planning to do something; it's just fun thoughts. A lot of women have a rape fantasy, but that does not mean that they actually want to be raped. It's just fantasy.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
The book makes her horny. Women like reading their porn, thus the proliferation of romance novels. Don't stifle the experience for her; just enjoy her extra horniness for yourself. Always encourage a girl to fantasize; you are the one who benefits. Fantasizing is not reality, and it is not planning to do something; it's just fun thoughts. A lot of women have a rape fantasy, but that does not mean that they actually want to be raped. It's just fantasy.
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Exactly, its only entertainment!!
 
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Thanks for the input fellas. I dropped the subject with her, you all were right. She actually encouraged me to read Tucker Max's 'I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell'. haha.

time to move on. again, thanks.
 
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be thankful that she does not have a chapter in the book devoted to her exploits.:nervous:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't worry about it man.. my gf reads all sorts of erotic/fantasy novels and stuff. Its just entertainment for girls nothing else.
 
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