"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My Look help

xenten

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Hi. I am trying to find the right look for me. I currently haven't had a haircut in quite some time. I'm happy with it, but I probably need to get it cut. If I get my haircut short then I look like I'm 13-15. But I probably need a trim. I have 2 pictures of me. The first is after a shower and shave in a nice shirt. The second is without a shower, by accident, and no shave in 4 days. I call it the rustic look. Here is a link to my website with them. Let me know what you think.

P.S. I usually shower everyday, just didn't get a chance this weekend, or have a reason to.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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john paul

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Its hard for guys to make that kind of call but yea you could use a haircut. Keep some faciel hair if your worried you look too young without it.

Im still waiting for mine to start growing. Ill be 40 before I can grow a beard.



If your looking for a more specific answer then ask a close sister or girl friend what she thinks.
 

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you've got a round face, so your long hair is a good idea, but go to a stylist, expecting to pay at least 35 bucks and see what she thinks!

Currently it's way to ball shaped I'd say, and would suggest getting her to thin and texturize it. Check out asian hair styles, they are pretty cool, and you've got really long hair so you can do almost anything you want!

You may consider straightening or putting it into a pony tail that lets a lot of it hang, like you see in Japanese "samurai" lol! it may look really cool!

Johnny Depp has a really cool hair style in the movie, Don Juan De Marco, which you could probably pull off as well!

As for clothing, It MUST match your style!
so SO important!
Matching your style, smell, sound and personality is absolutely necessary.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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bro please cut ur hair.. u look like a chick.. not trying to be mean but PLEASE CUT UR HAIR!!!! and stop cheesing soo hard lol damn i really am getting on u.. haha u look pretty good though.. i think the clean shaven looks is better
 

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I meant to post this in Don Juan Discussion, being that I'm not in high school anymore.

Back on topic. I have considered going to a stylist and telling her to do her work with me.

Hats don't look good on me and they hardly fit. My hair just puffs out the side. Unless you mean another kind of hat other than baseball hats.

I feel that jeans and a polo style shirt works real well with me. I try to wear that a lot.

-Mooney

Edit: Can one of the mods move this to Don Juan Discussion for me please.
 

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JMooney5115 said:
I meant to post this in Don Juan Discussion, being that I'm not in high school anymore.

Back on topic. I have considered going to a stylist and telling her to do her work with me.

Hats don't look good on me and they hardly fit. My hair just puffs out the side. Unless you mean another kind of hat other than baseball hats.

I feel that jeans and a polo style shirt works real well with me. I try to wear that a lot.

-Mooney



Edit: Can one of the mods move this to Don Juan Discussion for me please.
I was talking about a hat like this...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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xenten

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That hat doesn't fit my personality. I do like beanies except I just lost my favorite one. I'll find someone to ask.
 
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