"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My Look help

xenten

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Hi. I am trying to find the right look for me. I currently haven't had a haircut in quite some time. I'm happy with it, but I probably need to get it cut. If I get my haircut short then I look like I'm 13-15. But I probably need a trim. I have 2 pictures of me. The first is after a shower and shave in a nice shirt. The second is without a shower, by accident, and no shave in 4 days. I call it the rustic look. Here is a link to my website with them. Let me know what you think.

P.S. I usually shower everyday, just didn't get a chance this weekend, or have a reason to.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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john paul

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Its hard for guys to make that kind of call but yea you could use a haircut. Keep some faciel hair if your worried you look too young without it.

Im still waiting for mine to start growing. Ill be 40 before I can grow a beard.



If your looking for a more specific answer then ask a close sister or girl friend what she thinks.
 

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you've got a round face, so your long hair is a good idea, but go to a stylist, expecting to pay at least 35 bucks and see what she thinks!

Currently it's way to ball shaped I'd say, and would suggest getting her to thin and texturize it. Check out asian hair styles, they are pretty cool, and you've got really long hair so you can do almost anything you want!

You may consider straightening or putting it into a pony tail that lets a lot of it hang, like you see in Japanese "samurai" lol! it may look really cool!

Johnny Depp has a really cool hair style in the movie, Don Juan De Marco, which you could probably pull off as well!

As for clothing, It MUST match your style!
so SO important!
Matching your style, smell, sound and personality is absolutely necessary.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bro please cut ur hair.. u look like a chick.. not trying to be mean but PLEASE CUT UR HAIR!!!! and stop cheesing soo hard lol damn i really am getting on u.. haha u look pretty good though.. i think the clean shaven looks is better
 

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I meant to post this in Don Juan Discussion, being that I'm not in high school anymore.

Back on topic. I have considered going to a stylist and telling her to do her work with me.

Hats don't look good on me and they hardly fit. My hair just puffs out the side. Unless you mean another kind of hat other than baseball hats.

I feel that jeans and a polo style shirt works real well with me. I try to wear that a lot.

-Mooney

Edit: Can one of the mods move this to Don Juan Discussion for me please.
 

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JMooney5115 said:
I meant to post this in Don Juan Discussion, being that I'm not in high school anymore.

Back on topic. I have considered going to a stylist and telling her to do her work with me.

Hats don't look good on me and they hardly fit. My hair just puffs out the side. Unless you mean another kind of hat other than baseball hats.

I feel that jeans and a polo style shirt works real well with me. I try to wear that a lot.

-Mooney



Edit: Can one of the mods move this to Don Juan Discussion for me please.
I was talking about a hat like this...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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xenten

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That hat doesn't fit my personality. I do like beanies except I just lost my favorite one. I'll find someone to ask.
 
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