"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My Look help

xenten

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Hi. I am trying to find the right look for me. I currently haven't had a haircut in quite some time. I'm happy with it, but I probably need to get it cut. If I get my haircut short then I look like I'm 13-15. But I probably need a trim. I have 2 pictures of me. The first is after a shower and shave in a nice shirt. The second is without a shower, by accident, and no shave in 4 days. I call it the rustic look. Here is a link to my website with them. Let me know what you think.

P.S. I usually shower everyday, just didn't get a chance this weekend, or have a reason to.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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john paul

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Its hard for guys to make that kind of call but yea you could use a haircut. Keep some faciel hair if your worried you look too young without it.

Im still waiting for mine to start growing. Ill be 40 before I can grow a beard.



If your looking for a more specific answer then ask a close sister or girl friend what she thinks.
 

.smooth.

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you've got a round face, so your long hair is a good idea, but go to a stylist, expecting to pay at least 35 bucks and see what she thinks!

Currently it's way to ball shaped I'd say, and would suggest getting her to thin and texturize it. Check out asian hair styles, they are pretty cool, and you've got really long hair so you can do almost anything you want!

You may consider straightening or putting it into a pony tail that lets a lot of it hang, like you see in Japanese "samurai" lol! it may look really cool!

Johnny Depp has a really cool hair style in the movie, Don Juan De Marco, which you could probably pull off as well!

As for clothing, It MUST match your style!
so SO important!
Matching your style, smell, sound and personality is absolutely necessary.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bro please cut ur hair.. u look like a chick.. not trying to be mean but PLEASE CUT UR HAIR!!!! and stop cheesing soo hard lol damn i really am getting on u.. haha u look pretty good though.. i think the clean shaven looks is better
 

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I meant to post this in Don Juan Discussion, being that I'm not in high school anymore.

Back on topic. I have considered going to a stylist and telling her to do her work with me.

Hats don't look good on me and they hardly fit. My hair just puffs out the side. Unless you mean another kind of hat other than baseball hats.

I feel that jeans and a polo style shirt works real well with me. I try to wear that a lot.

-Mooney

Edit: Can one of the mods move this to Don Juan Discussion for me please.
 

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JMooney5115 said:
I meant to post this in Don Juan Discussion, being that I'm not in high school anymore.

Back on topic. I have considered going to a stylist and telling her to do her work with me.

Hats don't look good on me and they hardly fit. My hair just puffs out the side. Unless you mean another kind of hat other than baseball hats.

I feel that jeans and a polo style shirt works real well with me. I try to wear that a lot.

-Mooney



Edit: Can one of the mods move this to Don Juan Discussion for me please.
I was talking about a hat like this...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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xenten

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That hat doesn't fit my personality. I do like beanies except I just lost my favorite one. I'll find someone to ask.
 
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