"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

My league

Credos

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 20, 2005
Messages
658
Reaction score
19
Hey mates,

I'm new but i got this little problem.
Ya see people alwayse talk about she's outta your league and all that mombojombo :eek: . Ow well, I was wondering, I alwayse though if you play it the right , you can get anybody you want.

Now here comes my problem, how do I know what way I should play it, or was I thinking wrong?

Heres a second problem, the only place I can approach girls so far is at parties, but nowhere else, because I'm not drunk enough and they are mostly in group(i hate groups).

So anybody got some advice?

cheers mates :rockon:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

JayUK

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2005
Messages
85
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
England, i wish FLORIDA!
yeah man, even if a gurl likes u, she aint gna come over an talk to u cus shes shy, so instead shell stay wit her group, instead of standin on her own so its easy for u to approach!
some gurls also test you, to see if u will approach them wen ther in a group, jus to see if ure worth the time an ul put in effort!
jus say sorry to be rude but i thought u wer really hot an was wonderin if u wna go out etc
pretend its a joke, first time, or do it psychologically, cus anyone will approach an ugly gurl an ask her out, cus they aint bothered about makin mistakes! jus pretend she is ugly! an then ul be able to chill! like the waterboy!
 

danrizzy

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 25, 2005
Messages
42
Reaction score
0
Treat yourself as Premiership and Champions League quality and her as Championship or League 1/2 class. Should work.

(^Probably only makes sense to english football fans, heh. oh well :p)
 

splinterkb

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2004
Messages
750
Reaction score
4
Age
40
Location
Minnesota
League? What league? You are the league. Go in with that mind set.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

white cloud 8

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 13, 2005
Messages
397
Reaction score
0
Location
Canada
what the f*ck is this sh*t, dude....grow some b@lls and work on your self-confidence. What do you care if a girl doesn't like you :rolleyes: there are billions of them, pick your choice.
 
Top