Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Credos

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Hey mates,

I'm new but i got this little problem.
Ya see people alwayse talk about she's outta your league and all that mombojombo :eek: . Ow well, I was wondering, I alwayse though if you play it the right , you can get anybody you want.

Now here comes my problem, how do I know what way I should play it, or was I thinking wrong?

Heres a second problem, the only place I can approach girls so far is at parties, but nowhere else, because I'm not drunk enough and they are mostly in group(i hate groups).

So anybody got some advice?

cheers mates :rockon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JayUK

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yeah man, even if a gurl likes u, she aint gna come over an talk to u cus shes shy, so instead shell stay wit her group, instead of standin on her own so its easy for u to approach!
some gurls also test you, to see if u will approach them wen ther in a group, jus to see if ure worth the time an ul put in effort!
jus say sorry to be rude but i thought u wer really hot an was wonderin if u wna go out etc
pretend its a joke, first time, or do it psychologically, cus anyone will approach an ugly gurl an ask her out, cus they aint bothered about makin mistakes! jus pretend she is ugly! an then ul be able to chill! like the waterboy!
 

danrizzy

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Treat yourself as Premiership and Champions League quality and her as Championship or League 1/2 class. Should work.

(^Probably only makes sense to english football fans, heh. oh well :p)
 

splinterkb

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League? What league? You are the league. Go in with that mind set.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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white cloud 8

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what the f*ck is this sh*t, dude....grow some b@lls and work on your self-confidence. What do you care if a girl doesn't like you :rolleyes: there are billions of them, pick your choice.
 
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