"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Credos

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Hey mates,

I'm new but i got this little problem.
Ya see people alwayse talk about she's outta your league and all that mombojombo :eek: . Ow well, I was wondering, I alwayse though if you play it the right , you can get anybody you want.

Now here comes my problem, how do I know what way I should play it, or was I thinking wrong?

Heres a second problem, the only place I can approach girls so far is at parties, but nowhere else, because I'm not drunk enough and they are mostly in group(i hate groups).

So anybody got some advice?

cheers mates :rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JayUK

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yeah man, even if a gurl likes u, she aint gna come over an talk to u cus shes shy, so instead shell stay wit her group, instead of standin on her own so its easy for u to approach!
some gurls also test you, to see if u will approach them wen ther in a group, jus to see if ure worth the time an ul put in effort!
jus say sorry to be rude but i thought u wer really hot an was wonderin if u wna go out etc
pretend its a joke, first time, or do it psychologically, cus anyone will approach an ugly gurl an ask her out, cus they aint bothered about makin mistakes! jus pretend she is ugly! an then ul be able to chill! like the waterboy!
 

danrizzy

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Treat yourself as Premiership and Champions League quality and her as Championship or League 1/2 class. Should work.

(^Probably only makes sense to english football fans, heh. oh well :p)
 

splinterkb

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League? What league? You are the league. Go in with that mind set.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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white cloud 8

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what the f*ck is this sh*t, dude....grow some b@lls and work on your self-confidence. What do you care if a girl doesn't like you :rolleyes: there are billions of them, pick your choice.
 
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