"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Credos

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Hey mates,

I'm new but i got this little problem.
Ya see people alwayse talk about she's outta your league and all that mombojombo :eek: . Ow well, I was wondering, I alwayse though if you play it the right , you can get anybody you want.

Now here comes my problem, how do I know what way I should play it, or was I thinking wrong?

Heres a second problem, the only place I can approach girls so far is at parties, but nowhere else, because I'm not drunk enough and they are mostly in group(i hate groups).

So anybody got some advice?

cheers mates :rockon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JayUK

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yeah man, even if a gurl likes u, she aint gna come over an talk to u cus shes shy, so instead shell stay wit her group, instead of standin on her own so its easy for u to approach!
some gurls also test you, to see if u will approach them wen ther in a group, jus to see if ure worth the time an ul put in effort!
jus say sorry to be rude but i thought u wer really hot an was wonderin if u wna go out etc
pretend its a joke, first time, or do it psychologically, cus anyone will approach an ugly gurl an ask her out, cus they aint bothered about makin mistakes! jus pretend she is ugly! an then ul be able to chill! like the waterboy!
 
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Treat yourself as Premiership and Champions League quality and her as Championship or League 1/2 class. Should work.

(^Probably only makes sense to english football fans, heh. oh well :p)
 
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League? What league? You are the league. Go in with that mind set.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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white cloud 8

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what the f*ck is this sh*t, dude....grow some b@lls and work on your self-confidence. What do you care if a girl doesn't like you :rolleyes: there are billions of them, pick your choice.
 
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