"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You seemed to spend the night how many AFC's spent the night, alone. I know I'm no "pro" but I'd say only tell your "beotch" you have business if you actually have business..Otherwise what's wrong with spending some time with her?
Thats just my take on it. Anyways carry on Commando.
Lishy
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your girl has to miss you. You cant be always acceptable.
But you dont have to turn everything down either.
For example if she wants to go to the cinema maker her go to the pub with you
If she wants to go to the disco and you want to just go with her already but make sure to enjoy yourself.
To the online thingie: some DJs here tend to say that being online and talking is good. For me its an absolute no-go if you cant get her to the phone.
When you are online you tend to be always on ( for example when u are in sosuave) or you tend to talk with her more than you would on the phone. That means you are talking about topics you could talk about in reallife and when you get her to a meeting in reallife ( when you didnt end up in the friends zone already) you have nothing to talk about.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm still navagating it a bit and yes there are many different attitudes and perspectives. All flavors.
If my language was offensive to some I apologize but I was emulating (tongue in cheek) some of what I have seen here. Not all, but some and so I had some fun.
It is true that in the beginning of getting to know someone backing off a bit to (let them miss you a little) can help. It builds attraction and shows that you have your own life and things to do. Not too many people want to spend every moment together and often you see people get their fill of each other too quickly and then there is nothing left. Enryu makes some good suggestions.
I know you will all miss me, but I got to roll. Somebody is making me a sandwich.
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HOMBRE said:
Coming over is a different story. How's that DJ bible working for you? Yeah I already know, you love the men that follow it!
Ahaha, funny.My Name is Nobody said:
And no, I wouldn't go near a man who subscribes to most of that nonsense. Some of it is ok, but after I read the thing about being a "prick for a day" you lost me. No class. I like my mens to have CLASS!
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HOMBRE said:Ahaha, funny.
And no, I wouldn't go near a man who subscribes to most of that nonsense. Some of it is ok, but after I read the thing about being a "prick for a day" you lost me. No class. I like my mens to have CLASS!
You're married.
NEXT!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.