“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Crazy Asian

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ok i know that looks aren't as important as all the other traits, but hear me out. I have an abnormally large head and flat face/nose (i'm azn). and i didn't even know about it until some kids in elementary school started to make fun of me for it. i don't think i'd be this self conscience about it if they didn't start making fun of me. but i did realize that my head was huge. and i think that no matter how "charming" i'll be, my head makes me seem sorta like a freak? (pains me to say that )

i dunno where i got hits but i found this quote, and i think you guys are underestimating the power of looks :
"if she finds you good-looking, there is nothing much you can do wrong on a first date"
"if she doesn't find you good-looking, there is nothing much you can do right on a first date"

anyway... wut should i do about it? i mean, i don't wan to come off as that annoying kid that bugs everyone. i'll post a pic up if any of you really want to see me..... i mean i don't think i look too bad, but i just hate how i'm such a freak all the time ya know?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, fuk it. If you start taking risks, talking to girls, gaining confidnce and popularity, you will be THE MAN. Trust me on this, this ugly ass guy in my school, he looks like hes 40, going bald, just a weird face overall, total ass h0le, 100% confidence. Hot girls hit on him. He's a ugly fuk. Gain status by gaining confidence by taking risks and that dream isn't too far off.
 

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you know your wasting your time letting your insecurities stop you right? stop doubting and just do it. who cares. have fun. be a man. whatever.

While your doubting yourself, the other DJ's are making progress.
 

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Looks play a part, and I will say that you may not have girls throw themselves at you. Being confident and secure, however, will make it a LOT easier to win them over.

Hot girls date goofy looking guys all the time.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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i'd hate to be a d1ck to ChaseLachey

but

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1133208&postcount=4

thats him... and he seems confident... he even has a girl too.

j/w... but do you have a picture?!

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besides you're asian... get over it... most asians would say their head isnt in proportion like a white persons, and who said white people's heads are in proportion? (well besides being the minority to white people)

i'm asian and i'm totally comfortable with myself now. white girls dig me... i carry myself well... they like it. i like it.

get over yourself and accept it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how do you propose to change your looks?

Right, so don't worry about it.
 

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why focus on your negatives?????

focus on your strenghts and project them...instead of thiking about your insecurities

Shocker rightly said:

You can do nothing about it , so fuk it.

Just dress up well and groom yourself :thats it

I had a major insecurity when I was young that I am not good looking and girls would hate me. Slowly and steadily though , talking to them, going out made me more confident of my looks.
 

Berlex

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start working out so your body is more proportioned
 

Crazy Asian

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i swim 2 hours every day and workout mon, wed, and fri. i'm getting stronger and my muscles are more defined, but i'm not getting bigger. am i not eating enough or wut?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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