"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Crazy Asian

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ok i know that looks aren't as important as all the other traits, but hear me out. I have an abnormally large head and flat face/nose (i'm azn). and i didn't even know about it until some kids in elementary school started to make fun of me for it. i don't think i'd be this self conscience about it if they didn't start making fun of me. but i did realize that my head was huge. and i think that no matter how "charming" i'll be, my head makes me seem sorta like a freak? (pains me to say that )

i dunno where i got hits but i found this quote, and i think you guys are underestimating the power of looks :
"if she finds you good-looking, there is nothing much you can do wrong on a first date"
"if she doesn't find you good-looking, there is nothing much you can do right on a first date"

anyway... wut should i do about it? i mean, i don't wan to come off as that annoying kid that bugs everyone. i'll post a pic up if any of you really want to see me..... i mean i don't think i look too bad, but i just hate how i'm such a freak all the time ya know?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BBX

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Dude, fuk it. If you start taking risks, talking to girls, gaining confidnce and popularity, you will be THE MAN. Trust me on this, this ugly ass guy in my school, he looks like hes 40, going bald, just a weird face overall, total ass h0le, 100% confidence. Hot girls hit on him. He's a ugly fuk. Gain status by gaining confidence by taking risks and that dream isn't too far off.
 

Precursor

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you know your wasting your time letting your insecurities stop you right? stop doubting and just do it. who cares. have fun. be a man. whatever.

While your doubting yourself, the other DJ's are making progress.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Looks play a part, and I will say that you may not have girls throw themselves at you. Being confident and secure, however, will make it a LOT easier to win them over.

Hot girls date goofy looking guys all the time.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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i'd hate to be a d1ck to ChaseLachey

but

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1133208&postcount=4

thats him... and he seems confident... he even has a girl too.

j/w... but do you have a picture?!

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besides you're asian... get over it... most asians would say their head isnt in proportion like a white persons, and who said white people's heads are in proportion? (well besides being the minority to white people)

i'm asian and i'm totally comfortable with myself now. white girls dig me... i carry myself well... they like it. i like it.

get over yourself and accept it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Shocker

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how do you propose to change your looks?

Right, so don't worry about it.
 

nicenomore

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why focus on your negatives?????

focus on your strenghts and project them...instead of thiking about your insecurities

Shocker rightly said:

You can do nothing about it , so fuk it.

Just dress up well and groom yourself :thats it

I had a major insecurity when I was young that I am not good looking and girls would hate me. Slowly and steadily though , talking to them, going out made me more confident of my looks.
 

Berlex

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start working out so your body is more proportioned
 

Crazy Asian

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i swim 2 hours every day and workout mon, wed, and fri. i'm getting stronger and my muscles are more defined, but i'm not getting bigger. am i not eating enough or wut?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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