"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My haunting past of my nerdiness?

marines_hooorah

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Allright lets just say that I discovered this site a little late in 8th grade, so the number of girls Ive gotton in my freshman year of high school is waaaaaay more than my entire middle school middle school. Anyway, a lot of the girls I went to school with still pop p in my lives. They still think that im a nerd, and i swear that all of their friends think it too(they give me that this kid doesnt act like a nerd look) So I guess my main problem is if I should a) screw em and move on theres plenty of fish out there b) prove them that im not the computer programming, master chief loving kid from the middle school days c) insert whatever else here. Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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john paul

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I use to have this problem of being known as the shy nerd. When people noticed i changed and asked me why i wasnt shy and didnt come off as a nerd anymore i just said i had grown up.

I think thats the best reply when your asked why you dont come off as such a nerd anymore. People will start to know you as a cool guy instead of your old reputation even if they knew you when you were a nerd.
 

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you know you still love masterchief

anyways, i'd just be the new you. that's all you gotta do. dont worry about impressing those b1tches if they come they come. if they don't, they don't
 

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Option A is your best bet. If girls and other people didn't respect you for who you are, no matter if your a "nerd" or not, they aren't worth your time. Invest friendships in people that matter.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SinJester

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I have the same problem and scenario as you. Just don't worry about them, wont be a problem when you leave high school anyway. Do your thing, don't worry about them and they might eventually change their minds. If not then too bad, their loss, they can get fcked!
 

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I agree with all the above posters telling you go to with option A. I used to be a nerd myself but was fairly sociable and nowadays I have gotten around with quite a few girls that are friends too lol. Anyways, if they don't want to be your friend because of your past, just ignore their lame remarks and do your own thing, find other people that will respect you. The kinds of people that judge you from your past behaviors are moronic to still think you are the same person and you definitely don't want to become friends with those losers.
 

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