"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My Gut Instinct Tells Me She Is Lying?

soulforge

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You have to be really insecure to freak out about a woman who you claim is "sex only" because she didn't text you back in like 10 mins.

Doesn't sound like you have the mindset she is a plate, IMO.

Insecurity is so unattractive, you are going to end up fvcking things up for no reason.

This thread makes no sense. You are trying to claim you "played it cool and got her to beg you and come over" but yet freaking out about a woman not texting back immediately?
I admit I over reacted with this post... In fact I didn't question her about the night or raised an issue about it. She went off radar for 3 hours, no big deal.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Could she be lying and been upto something? Potentially. How does one exactly prove that. Should I confront her and accuse her of being upto something. All that will do is make me look jealous
Season two of "the white lotus" really explored this particular aspect of relationships which I really want to capture in my life. I think its the less talked about more powerful side of red pill which boils down to, who cares. So what if shes up to something, thats her problem, not yours. So what if shes lying, thats a reflection of her not you. You do you and spend time with her for your reasons and let her be her.

Thats the true alpha position. I get it now.
 
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