"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My Gosh what are these gurls reading!

S-lemond

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this was on a gurl friend of mines xanga......they gotta be kiding me!


Guys how girls flirt!
1. She makes eye contact and smiles at you.

2. She hits you softly on the arm and laughs when you say something funny.

3. She flips her hair when she's talking to you.

4. She touches your arm when she talks to you.

5. She says, "No, I'm not telling you who I like!" with a big smile on her face.

6. She asks you who you like or who you would go out with acting seeminglyinterested.

7. When you go to the movies with a bunch of your friends and she is almost always next to you.

8. She criticizes you on a girl you like.

9. You catch her staring at you.


10. She plays with your hair or tries to put make up on you.


11. Her friends outside of school and in school know about you, and say she talks about you a lot.


12. She knows your phone number and address.

13. She will try and talk, and spend time with you as much as possible

*~*Girls*~* [how guyz flirt]

1. He stares at you alot.

2. He hits you alot. (just play hitting )

3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a converstaion with you

4. He yelled, "Hi!", to your mom that day she picked you up from school.

5. He blew off his buds to go see "Run Away Bride" with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.

6. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets hurt in theprocess

7. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") when ever you two talk.







8. You hung up on him. He called you back.

9. You where invited by him to a group outing.

10. He called you to talk about nothing at all.

11. He imitates your laugh (OK, you do snort sometimes) which makes you laugh even harder.

12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.

13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.

14. He uses every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, butt, thighs, ect.)
you two talk.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chillisauce

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Haha, its fairly spot on for how girls flirt. The rest is bull$hit though from a DJ's perspective, but that IS how alot of AFC's 'flirt'. She's bound to like me if i supplicate and have myself available at every beck and call!
 

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Number 9 is a big one alright. You catch 'em and then they look away as if you weren't supposed to have caught that .. too funny.
 

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DJ qualities:

2. He hits you alot. (just play hitting ) Kino

3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a converstaion with you. ...need I say anything? Opening in a observational way.

4. He yelled, "Hi!", to your mom that day she picked you up from school. Demonstrates a sense of humour

7. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") when ever you two talk. Well, partly, but that's just seductive voice tones at work

11. He imitates your laugh (OK, you do snort sometimes) which makes you laugh even harder. Neg-hits

12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation. I remember reading something about soliciting values, or key words, or something. Someone remind me

13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.Duh

14. He uses every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, butt, thighs, ect.)
you two talk. Ah, there's kino again :)

And, BAD THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO


1. He stares at you alot.

5. He blew off his buds to go see "Run Away Bride" with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.

8. You hung up on him. He called you back.


The other couple that weren't mentioned are "whatever" things. Ie, nothing notable about them.


The "how girls flirt" is pretty spot on though :)

Syn.
 

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thats for the clarification man!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lebRambo

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^^^

agreed. its always been the shallow, way too bubbly girls that do this to me.
 
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