"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My Gosh what are these gurls reading!

S-lemond

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this was on a gurl friend of mines xanga......they gotta be kiding me!


Guys how girls flirt!
1. She makes eye contact and smiles at you.

2. She hits you softly on the arm and laughs when you say something funny.

3. She flips her hair when she's talking to you.

4. She touches your arm when she talks to you.

5. She says, "No, I'm not telling you who I like!" with a big smile on her face.

6. She asks you who you like or who you would go out with acting seeminglyinterested.

7. When you go to the movies with a bunch of your friends and she is almost always next to you.

8. She criticizes you on a girl you like.

9. You catch her staring at you.


10. She plays with your hair or tries to put make up on you.


11. Her friends outside of school and in school know about you, and say she talks about you a lot.


12. She knows your phone number and address.

13. She will try and talk, and spend time with you as much as possible

*~*Girls*~* [how guyz flirt]

1. He stares at you alot.

2. He hits you alot. (just play hitting )

3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a converstaion with you

4. He yelled, "Hi!", to your mom that day she picked you up from school.

5. He blew off his buds to go see "Run Away Bride" with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.

6. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets hurt in theprocess

7. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") when ever you two talk.







8. You hung up on him. He called you back.

9. You where invited by him to a group outing.

10. He called you to talk about nothing at all.

11. He imitates your laugh (OK, you do snort sometimes) which makes you laugh even harder.

12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.

13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.

14. He uses every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, butt, thighs, ect.)
you two talk.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Chillisauce

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Haha, its fairly spot on for how girls flirt. The rest is bull$hit though from a DJ's perspective, but that IS how alot of AFC's 'flirt'. She's bound to like me if i supplicate and have myself available at every beck and call!
 

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Number 9 is a big one alright. You catch 'em and then they look away as if you weren't supposed to have caught that .. too funny.
 

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DJ qualities:

2. He hits you alot. (just play hitting ) Kino

3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a converstaion with you. ...need I say anything? Opening in a observational way.

4. He yelled, "Hi!", to your mom that day she picked you up from school. Demonstrates a sense of humour

7. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") when ever you two talk. Well, partly, but that's just seductive voice tones at work

11. He imitates your laugh (OK, you do snort sometimes) which makes you laugh even harder. Neg-hits

12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation. I remember reading something about soliciting values, or key words, or something. Someone remind me

13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.Duh

14. He uses every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, butt, thighs, ect.)
you two talk. Ah, there's kino again :)

And, BAD THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO


1. He stares at you alot.

5. He blew off his buds to go see "Run Away Bride" with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.

8. You hung up on him. He called you back.


The other couple that weren't mentioned are "whatever" things. Ie, nothing notable about them.


The "how girls flirt" is pretty spot on though :)

Syn.
 

S-lemond

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thats for the clarification man!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lebRambo

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^^^

agreed. its always been the shallow, way too bubbly girls that do this to me.
 
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