“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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My Gosh what are these gurls reading!

S-lemond

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this was on a gurl friend of mines xanga......they gotta be kiding me!


Guys how girls flirt!
1. She makes eye contact and smiles at you.

2. She hits you softly on the arm and laughs when you say something funny.

3. She flips her hair when she's talking to you.

4. She touches your arm when she talks to you.

5. She says, "No, I'm not telling you who I like!" with a big smile on her face.

6. She asks you who you like or who you would go out with acting seeminglyinterested.

7. When you go to the movies with a bunch of your friends and she is almost always next to you.

8. She criticizes you on a girl you like.

9. You catch her staring at you.


10. She plays with your hair or tries to put make up on you.


11. Her friends outside of school and in school know about you, and say she talks about you a lot.


12. She knows your phone number and address.

13. She will try and talk, and spend time with you as much as possible

*~*Girls*~* [how guyz flirt]

1. He stares at you alot.

2. He hits you alot. (just play hitting )

3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a converstaion with you

4. He yelled, "Hi!", to your mom that day she picked you up from school.

5. He blew off his buds to go see "Run Away Bride" with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.

6. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets hurt in theprocess

7. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") when ever you two talk.







8. You hung up on him. He called you back.

9. You where invited by him to a group outing.

10. He called you to talk about nothing at all.

11. He imitates your laugh (OK, you do snort sometimes) which makes you laugh even harder.

12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.

13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.

14. He uses every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, butt, thighs, ect.)
you two talk.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chillisauce

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Haha, its fairly spot on for how girls flirt. The rest is bull$hit though from a DJ's perspective, but that IS how alot of AFC's 'flirt'. She's bound to like me if i supplicate and have myself available at every beck and call!
 

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Number 9 is a big one alright. You catch 'em and then they look away as if you weren't supposed to have caught that .. too funny.
 

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DJ qualities:

2. He hits you alot. (just play hitting ) Kino

3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a converstaion with you. ...need I say anything? Opening in a observational way.

4. He yelled, "Hi!", to your mom that day she picked you up from school. Demonstrates a sense of humour

7. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") when ever you two talk. Well, partly, but that's just seductive voice tones at work

11. He imitates your laugh (OK, you do snort sometimes) which makes you laugh even harder. Neg-hits

12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation. I remember reading something about soliciting values, or key words, or something. Someone remind me

13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.Duh

14. He uses every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, butt, thighs, ect.)
you two talk. Ah, there's kino again :)

And, BAD THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO


1. He stares at you alot.

5. He blew off his buds to go see "Run Away Bride" with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.

8. You hung up on him. He called you back.


The other couple that weren't mentioned are "whatever" things. Ie, nothing notable about them.


The "how girls flirt" is pretty spot on though :)

Syn.
 

S-lemond

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thats for the clarification man!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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^^^

agreed. its always been the shallow, way too bubbly girls that do this to me.
 
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