"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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my good qualities versus my bad qualities!

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good:

ican make people laugh
i make people feel people feel good about themselves
i know this dj stuff like the back of my hand
I stand out

bad:

i dont smile
i dont have confidence
i dont have stories
i'm akward
i dont escelate well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So what are you doing about your bad qualities?

Why don't you smile?
Why do you lack confidence?
You don't have any stories? What's the deal?
Your akward about what?

Please answer these questions so we can help.

i dont escelate well.
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I just looked that up and it sounds like
it's because you have the other problem areas.
 
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Well I wrote an article titled "girls think im wierd." And its about my past and how to get over it.

Well I was left with low self esteem and mood swings. I realized that my game is tight but my mood swings and akwardness get in the way. Because I usaully try to pick up women at my dorm so yeah I got my social value really high when I first got there but it got lowered cuz people noticed my mood swings and low self confidence. But like i'm trying to get over these things that project low self esteem. Like not smiling enough, and not being social enoguh, to be social enough to pick up women. I realized that i need to go to people to be social. And **** but yeah I cant really get over some bull**** that happened to me and it prevents me from getting women and it shows through. And like on days that I feel like **** are devistating because so many girls look at me and can tell. And thats all it takes for me to look stupid.
 
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You didn't answer the questions.
Keep it simple and get to the point.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you basically know where your problems are. so now you know what to work on. read, try different things, always give it a shot. no one could tell you how to become a better person.
 
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