"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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my good qualities versus my bad qualities!

trojanman88

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good:

ican make people laugh
i make people feel people feel good about themselves
i know this dj stuff like the back of my hand
I stand out

bad:

i dont smile
i dont have confidence
i dont have stories
i'm akward
i dont escelate well.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JDA70

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So what are you doing about your bad qualities?

Why don't you smile?
Why do you lack confidence?
You don't have any stories? What's the deal?
Your akward about what?

Please answer these questions so we can help.

i dont escelate well.
I just looked that up and it sounds like
it's because you have the other problem areas.
 

trojanman88

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Well I wrote an article titled "girls think im wierd." And its about my past and how to get over it.

Well I was left with low self esteem and mood swings. I realized that my game is tight but my mood swings and akwardness get in the way. Because I usaully try to pick up women at my dorm so yeah I got my social value really high when I first got there but it got lowered cuz people noticed my mood swings and low self confidence. But like i'm trying to get over these things that project low self esteem. Like not smiling enough, and not being social enoguh, to be social enough to pick up women. I realized that i need to go to people to be social. And **** but yeah I cant really get over some bull**** that happened to me and it prevents me from getting women and it shows through. And like on days that I feel like **** are devistating because so many girls look at me and can tell. And thats all it takes for me to look stupid.
 

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You didn't answer the questions.
Keep it simple and get to the point.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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you basically know where your problems are. so now you know what to work on. read, try different things, always give it a shot. no one could tell you how to become a better person.
 
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