"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my good qualities versus my bad qualities!

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good:

ican make people laugh
i make people feel people feel good about themselves
i know this dj stuff like the back of my hand
I stand out

bad:

i dont smile
i dont have confidence
i dont have stories
i'm akward
i dont escelate well.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So what are you doing about your bad qualities?

Why don't you smile?
Why do you lack confidence?
You don't have any stories? What's the deal?
Your akward about what?

Please answer these questions so we can help.

i dont escelate well.
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I just looked that up and it sounds like
it's because you have the other problem areas.
 
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Well I wrote an article titled "girls think im wierd." And its about my past and how to get over it.

Well I was left with low self esteem and mood swings. I realized that my game is tight but my mood swings and akwardness get in the way. Because I usaully try to pick up women at my dorm so yeah I got my social value really high when I first got there but it got lowered cuz people noticed my mood swings and low self confidence. But like i'm trying to get over these things that project low self esteem. Like not smiling enough, and not being social enoguh, to be social enough to pick up women. I realized that i need to go to people to be social. And **** but yeah I cant really get over some bull**** that happened to me and it prevents me from getting women and it shows through. And like on days that I feel like **** are devistating because so many girls look at me and can tell. And thats all it takes for me to look stupid.
 
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You didn't answer the questions.
Keep it simple and get to the point.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you basically know where your problems are. so now you know what to work on. read, try different things, always give it a shot. no one could tell you how to become a better person.
 
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