"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My girlfriend wants to marry me just because I can provide for us

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metalwater said:
part of the SMV of a man is the money and status. likewise she could get fat and ugly and see if he stays only for the inner beauty.
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Yes it can go both ways and often guys here are hypocritical in this regard sometimes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You trained her to be this way. She knows you "can provide" because you've chosen to do that. if you've been with someone for 3 years and shown yourself to be a certain way she's there for that and going to expect that.
 
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The bad news is that three weeks ago I got COVID-19 and she took care of me, but I'm still with my "red flags". I even can believe she has feelings for me but of course, just because I can provide.
 
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