"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My girlfriend wants to marry me just because I can provide for us

Lookatu

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part of the SMV of a man is the money and status. likewise she could get fat and ugly and see if he stays only for the inner beauty.
Yes it can go both ways and often guys here are hypocritical in this regard sometimes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You trained her to be this way. She knows you "can provide" because you've chosen to do that. if you've been with someone for 3 years and shown yourself to be a certain way she's there for that and going to expect that.
 

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The bad news is that three weeks ago I got COVID-19 and she took care of me, but I'm still with my "red flags". I even can believe she has feelings for me but of course, just because I can provide.
 
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