sebastian11
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what should i say? i dont really want to start saying it to her first but the fact that i dont seems to be annoying her quite a bit lol
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
my girlfriend just asked me why does she always have to say "i love you" first.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
sebastian11
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idk i mean i like her alot but years ago i was in a relationship where i was the one who was way too into the relationship and eventually she got bored and left me. i dont want that to happen again.
bukowski_merit
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absolutely do not do it because she's asking you too...
that's supplicant...
"why don't you say you love me first ever?"
(a supplicant mans answer; first chance her gets) "I love you"
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you need to address her emotional need here...
what she's really wondering is if you really love her period...
she's finding a convenient way to ask this by turning it around as if it's about who says what first... it's not...
you just need to convey that you DO love her...
that's supplicant...
"why don't you say you love me first ever?"
(a supplicant mans answer; first chance her gets) "I love you"
---
you need to address her emotional need here...
what she's really wondering is if you really love her period...
she's finding a convenient way to ask this by turning it around as if it's about who says what first... it's not...
you just need to convey that you DO love her...
sebastian11
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interesting, i didnt even think of it that waybukowski_merit said:absolutely do not do it because she's asking you too...
that's supplicant...
"why don't you say you love me first ever?"
(a supplicant mans answer; first chance her gets) "I love you"
---
you need to address her emotional need here...
what she's really wondering is if you really love her period...
she's finding a convenient way to ask this by turning it around as if it's about who says what first... it's not...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
sebastian11
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i agree, "love you too" is my usual response, but really saying "i love you" is very uncomfortable.San Jose California said:Saying "i love you" to a girl just seems awkward and not fun.
Usually in this case i will simply tell her 'bt you know i do' if she insist on the wordings i go off explaining to her how the words does nt convey my true feeling since i believe that this generation has abused those 3 cute words a great deal and she would go all 'yeah thats true'.
That gets me off the hook AT ALL TIMES!! Try it n see..
That gets me off the hook AT ALL TIMES!! Try it n see..