sebastian11
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what should i say? i dont really want to start saying it to her first but the fact that i dont seems to be annoying her quite a bit lol
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my girlfriend just asked me why does she always have to say "i love you" first.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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sebastian11
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idk i mean i like her alot but years ago i was in a relationship where i was the one who was way too into the relationship and eventually she got bored and left me. i dont want that to happen again.
bukowski_merit
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absolutely do not do it because she's asking you too...
that's supplicant...
"why don't you say you love me first ever?"
(a supplicant mans answer; first chance her gets) "I love you"
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you need to address her emotional need here...
what she's really wondering is if you really love her period...
she's finding a convenient way to ask this by turning it around as if it's about who says what first... it's not...
you just need to convey that you DO love her...
that's supplicant...
"why don't you say you love me first ever?"
(a supplicant mans answer; first chance her gets) "I love you"
---
you need to address her emotional need here...
what she's really wondering is if you really love her period...
she's finding a convenient way to ask this by turning it around as if it's about who says what first... it's not...
you just need to convey that you DO love her...
sebastian11
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interesting, i didnt even think of it that waybukowski_merit said:absolutely do not do it because she's asking you too...
that's supplicant...
"why don't you say you love me first ever?"
(a supplicant mans answer; first chance her gets) "I love you"
---
you need to address her emotional need here...
what she's really wondering is if you really love her period...
she's finding a convenient way to ask this by turning it around as if it's about who says what first... it's not...
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
sebastian11
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i agree, "love you too" is my usual response, but really saying "i love you" is very uncomfortable.San Jose California said:Saying "i love you" to a girl just seems awkward and not fun.
Usually in this case i will simply tell her 'bt you know i do' if she insist on the wordings i go off explaining to her how the words does nt convey my true feeling since i believe that this generation has abused those 3 cute words a great deal and she would go all 'yeah thats true'.
That gets me off the hook AT ALL TIMES!! Try it n see..
That gets me off the hook AT ALL TIMES!! Try it n see..