sebastian11
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what should i say? i dont really want to start saying it to her first but the fact that i dont seems to be annoying her quite a bit lol
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
my girlfriend just asked me why does she always have to say "i love you" first.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
sebastian11
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idk i mean i like her alot but years ago i was in a relationship where i was the one who was way too into the relationship and eventually she got bored and left me. i dont want that to happen again.
bukowski_merit
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absolutely do not do it because she's asking you too...
that's supplicant...
"why don't you say you love me first ever?"
(a supplicant mans answer; first chance her gets) "I love you"
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you need to address her emotional need here...
what she's really wondering is if you really love her period...
she's finding a convenient way to ask this by turning it around as if it's about who says what first... it's not...
you just need to convey that you DO love her...
that's supplicant...
"why don't you say you love me first ever?"
(a supplicant mans answer; first chance her gets) "I love you"
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you need to address her emotional need here...
what she's really wondering is if you really love her period...
she's finding a convenient way to ask this by turning it around as if it's about who says what first... it's not...
you just need to convey that you DO love her...
sebastian11
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interesting, i didnt even think of it that waybukowski_merit said:absolutely do not do it because she's asking you too...
that's supplicant...
"why don't you say you love me first ever?"
(a supplicant mans answer; first chance her gets) "I love you"
---
you need to address her emotional need here...
what she's really wondering is if you really love her period...
she's finding a convenient way to ask this by turning it around as if it's about who says what first... it's not...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
sebastian11
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i agree, "love you too" is my usual response, but really saying "i love you" is very uncomfortable.San Jose California said:Saying "i love you" to a girl just seems awkward and not fun.
Usually in this case i will simply tell her 'bt you know i do' if she insist on the wordings i go off explaining to her how the words does nt convey my true feeling since i believe that this generation has abused those 3 cute words a great deal and she would go all 'yeah thats true'.
That gets me off the hook AT ALL TIMES!! Try it n see..
That gets me off the hook AT ALL TIMES!! Try it n see..