"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My girlfriend isn't a virgin but i am

RangerMIke

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An asswhipping? For what?.... I'd rather wait till marriage for sex. That's a personal choice, not something to be attacked over.
Okay... you want some advice.

Dump this girl and go find a virgin. If you have this attitude about sex then you have no choice, the fact she fvcked some other dude you think is not as good as you... will ALWAYS eat at you.

But understand this... all chicks are slvts.... there are no special innocent snow-flakes, but you need to go out and find a chick that you can pretend is an innocent cup-cake... Since you know the one you have isn't what you want.

I don't blame you... you are young and inexperienced, when you have over 3 decades of dating experience behind you you will look back on this as wonder WTF you were doing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thorninmyside

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Drop the idea of virginity as some virtuous special thing you give to someone. It's sticking a **** in a hole. Nothing more, nothing less. You've got the same problem as the Indian guy who just posted. You expect your girl to come out of cold storage after waiting her whole life for you to come along. It doesn't work like that. Embrace the secondhand market cause that's mostly what you're gonna find in life.
 
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