"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My girlfriend isn't a virgin but i am

RangerMIke

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An asswhipping? For what?.... I'd rather wait till marriage for sex. That's a personal choice, not something to be attacked over.
Okay... you want some advice.

Dump this girl and go find a virgin. If you have this attitude about sex then you have no choice, the fact she fvcked some other dude you think is not as good as you... will ALWAYS eat at you.

But understand this... all chicks are slvts.... there are no special innocent snow-flakes, but you need to go out and find a chick that you can pretend is an innocent cup-cake... Since you know the one you have isn't what you want.

I don't blame you... you are young and inexperienced, when you have over 3 decades of dating experience behind you you will look back on this as wonder WTF you were doing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thorninmyside

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Drop the idea of virginity as some virtuous special thing you give to someone. It's sticking a **** in a hole. Nothing more, nothing less. You've got the same problem as the Indian guy who just posted. You expect your girl to come out of cold storage after waiting her whole life for you to come along. It doesn't work like that. Embrace the secondhand market cause that's mostly what you're gonna find in life.
 
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