My girlfriend is getting into my nerves.

[mygf118]

I have a Korean girlfriend whom I met in an international dating blog. I got problems with her in terms of being romantic. Don’t get me wrong; I love her. I like the way she is. I like it when she’s being sweet to me. It’s just that she’s too much. She is into couple shirts, couple rings, couple shoes and a lot more. I’m not into that. It’s fine with me though but not to the extent that we almost look stupid. I find it extremely childish. I hate it everytime she asks me to wear this and that. If I won’t do what she wants, she will stop talking to me the whole day. She’s getting into my nerves. Everytime I tell her about how I feel with those stuff, she will get mad. What should I do with her? Help!

 

[AttackFormation]

I have a Korean girlfriend whom I met in an international dating blog. I got problems with her in terms of being romantic. Don’t get me wrong; I love her. I like the way she is. I like it when she’s being sweet to me. It’s just that she’s too much. She is into couple shirts, couple rings, couple shoes and a lot more. I’m not into that. It’s fine with me though but not to the extent that we almost look stupid. I find it extremely childish. I hate it everytime she asks me to wear this and that. If I won’t do what she wants, she will stop talking to me the whole day. She’s getting into my nerves. Everytime I tell her about how I feel with those stuff, she will get mad. What should I do with her? Help!

You have to get her to open up about why she wants to do all of that, and let her express as much as possible while you listen. There will be some emotional reason why she is doing it, let her tell you what it is, and then make her feel like you've understood what she means. Tell her that you feel the same way and then explain how you deal with it (that way putting it into a passive comparison to how she deals with it). She should hopefully feel like you're on the same page now and everything's a-okay. That's the blueprint of what I would do.

 

[wifehunter]

Lolz!

Go fishing with your friends, or you will turn into a girl!

 

[machoMax]

"My girlfriend is getting into my nerves." - You are not the only one bro, trust me!

 

[Atom Smasher]

Almost every time I meet up with my girl, we're wearing the same color. I wish I knew how she does this sh!t!

 

[wifehunter]

Almost every time I meet up with my girl, we're wearing the same color. I wish I knew how she does this sh!t!

 

[Atom Smasher]

LOL I wouldn't be surprised. Is that what they carry around in their purses?

 

[Ranger]

You have to get her to open up about why she wants to do all of that, and let her express as much as possible while you listen. There will be some emotional reason why she is doing it, let her tell you what it is, and then make her feel like you've understood what she means. Tell her that you feel the same way and then explain how you deal with it (that way putting it into a passive comparison to how she deals with it). She should hopefully feel like you're on the same page now and everything's a-okay. That's the blueprint of what I would do.

I’m have a little bit of trouble thinking with this.

 

[The Diver]

If I won’t do what she wants, she will stop talking to me the whole day.

Man, She's manipulating you to do what she wants, just wear what the hell you want to wear. If you won't stop dancing to her music, this sh*it will get worse.