DEEZEDBRAH
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Alcohol, drugs, the devil lol etc it's not an argument.
Any one who talks with her ex is grounds for disregard.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
My girlfriend cheated...
- Thread starter Nicholas Hill
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Any one who talks with her ex is grounds for disregard.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bokanovsky
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Focal core
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Yup 14years ago and now women has more power than lasteryear due to various law change and faminisme and becoming more slick on men, manipulate, faking interest, false charges/accusation, cheating.. Hard to find a quality ltr material nowdays leave the marriages part alone..
Blue pills need to be incinerate altogether for men to survive these ordeals.
ThinkerG
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You have to go with your gut instinct but first sort through the emotions and never let the fear of loss control you. Only you know what’s best if you don’t fool yourself.
That being said..In my opinion you need to drop her only for the fact that you’ll always have that mistrust in the back of your mind which makes for an unsettled feeling all the time and why put yourself through that?
What gave away her real intentions is that you said her roommate has been trying to get with her for sometime.Think about it this way? If she really didn’t want to f**k this guy there’s no way in hell he would’ve succeeded unless it’s rape and we clearly know that’s not the case here. I’m sorry to say but she wanted it, thought about it and did it. It was a lousy f**k so now she feels bad. If this dude was a 10 and a great f**k she would just leave you for him. Don’t let her manipulate you. Doesn’t matter what she says, No honest loving girlfriend would let this happen tipsy or not.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Murk
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This was 2015
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/i-kiss-closed-and-nicks-new-reason-for-being-here.28700/page-3
I like how Nick bumps his thread after 12 years to respond.
Nicholas Hill
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Three kids now. 11 years happily married. Haven't yet stopped cringing at all this old stuff!
darksprezzatura
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Good riddance. Cue to make your game tighter. Vet more carefully for LTR status. Next. She was just practice.
Stay strong. There are other girls who are waiting for you to approach them so they can throw themselves at you. Are you up for the task?
Stay strong. There are other girls who are waiting for you to approach them so they can throw themselves at you. Are you up for the task?
DEEZEDBRAH
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+1
A honest fact from game is that, very few are worthy of any callback.
Its a tier. ONS.Fwb rotation.
Ive seen enough to know 99% aren't worthy of the commitment and less thrn 1% are worthy of anything of longevity.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
”Even if one tries to forgive things are never the same.”
Additionally, if you let her slide and take her back, once you ultimately break up down the road and future girlfriends find out that you took back a cheater, then you’ll be sending a message that it’s ok to cheat on you. And every future girlfriend will.
Set yourself up for success. Ditch the b!tch, go for a few jogs, find some new plates to spin.
Additionally, if you let her slide and take her back, once you ultimately break up down the road and future girlfriends find out that you took back a cheater, then you’ll be sending a message that it’s ok to cheat on you. And every future girlfriend will.
Set yourself up for success. Ditch the b!tch, go for a few jogs, find some new plates to spin.
No judgement here. We've all been there at least once in our lives and it sucks hard. Red pill man, boundaries, self respect.
Once a cheater, always a cheater drunk or not. Move on and at very best, downgrade her to a plate if she was that good a fvck.
Once a cheater, always a cheater drunk or not. Move on and at very best, downgrade her to a plate if she was that good a fvck.
Nicholas Hill
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No, of course not.
Nicholas Hill
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There's no need to keep responding to this thread guys. It's from 2004. The situation has been resolved!
mrgoodstuff
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What was the old situation? How did you handle it and how has life unfolded afterwards? How are you today?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.