"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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my girlfiend has gone because of her ex

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in fact i've been dating a pretty young girl of 20's.
but the girl had a baby and was still in relation with her boyfriend.
But the girl fell in love with me and she couldn't hide it.
and the girl and her boyfriend are school dropout. (primary school)
and i got a university degree.
and the girl was living with her big sister in my neighborhood near me.
so each time she was with me. if she didn't see me she couldn't sleep.
our relation was very cool and tight so that even when her boyfriend came or called her she didn't care about it.
i knew the girl was really loving me. but one day she got a real quarrel with her elder and she decided to move on. and i gave her masive advices in which she had to stay.
she was very happy cuz of my advices and she decided to stay.
but suprisingly the next day her boyfriend came and after his departure the girl moved on and where? somewhere a place her boyfriend rentfor her.

Ps: she told me before she wasn't anymore with her boyfriend.
the day of her departure i blamed her of her behaviour and she took it badly.
she didn't i,form me when she went.

but i wanted to take the bull by its horn so i called her boyfriend and put my trap on. i asked him many questions which ended by good results. and the boy afraid called the girl. and also the girl called me and said she hadn't calld me before because she was afraid of my reaction and was pregenant of me and she will come to me the next saturday.

what to do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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:nono: Beware of becoming the "Rebound guy."
 
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famous words..."can't turn a H0 into a housewife"...ask for a paternity test..this chick obviously has issues, and if you let her suck you down, your degree won't mean jack when your taking care of her ex's TWO kids...come on, you know they hooked up, and you know he got her preg again..my advice, leave while there is a way out...
 
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Michele l'Arcangelo

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SUUURE you have your university degree. YOU seriously type like THE primary school dropout.

in other words... what the hell are you talking about???
 
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well my degree isn't in english..its in aerospace engineering...so unless you want the next rocket sent to the moon aimed at your house, RELAX.. anyway, I was only trying to make light of the fact that the kid probably isn't his, and that this girl comes with mental, emotional, and physical baggage that he probably doesn't need in his life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Michele said:
SUUURE you have your university degree. YOU seriously type like THE primary school dropout.

in other words... what the hell are you talking about???
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I doubt english is his first language.
 
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Giovanni Casanova

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zobelo said:
and also the girl called me and said she hadn't calld me before because she was afraid of my reaction and was pregenant of me and she will come to me the next saturday.
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Let's just say the girl leaving you for her ex is the least of your worries.
 
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