"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

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Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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my girlfiend has gone because of her ex

zobelo

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in fact i've been dating a pretty young girl of 20's.
but the girl had a baby and was still in relation with her boyfriend.
But the girl fell in love with me and she couldn't hide it.
and the girl and her boyfriend are school dropout. (primary school)
and i got a university degree.
and the girl was living with her big sister in my neighborhood near me.
so each time she was with me. if she didn't see me she couldn't sleep.
our relation was very cool and tight so that even when her boyfriend came or called her she didn't care about it.
i knew the girl was really loving me. but one day she got a real quarrel with her elder and she decided to move on. and i gave her masive advices in which she had to stay.
she was very happy cuz of my advices and she decided to stay.
but suprisingly the next day her boyfriend came and after his departure the girl moved on and where? somewhere a place her boyfriend rentfor her.

Ps: she told me before she wasn't anymore with her boyfriend.
the day of her departure i blamed her of her behaviour and she took it badly.
she didn't i,form me when she went.

but i wanted to take the bull by its horn so i called her boyfriend and put my trap on. i asked him many questions which ended by good results. and the boy afraid called the girl. and also the girl called me and said she hadn't calld me before because she was afraid of my reaction and was pregenant of me and she will come to me the next saturday.

what to do?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia

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:nono: Beware of becoming the "Rebound guy."
 

blackbelt2k

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famous words..."can't turn a H0 into a housewife"...ask for a paternity test..this chick obviously has issues, and if you let her suck you down, your degree won't mean jack when your taking care of her ex's TWO kids...come on, you know they hooked up, and you know he got her preg again..my advice, leave while there is a way out...
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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SUUURE you have your university degree. YOU seriously type like THE primary school dropout.

in other words... what the hell are you talking about???
 

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well my degree isn't in english..its in aerospace engineering...so unless you want the next rocket sent to the moon aimed at your house, RELAX.. anyway, I was only trying to make light of the fact that the kid probably isn't his, and that this girl comes with mental, emotional, and physical baggage that he probably doesn't need in his life.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Michele said:
SUUURE you have your university degree. YOU seriously type like THE primary school dropout.

in other words... what the hell are you talking about???
I doubt english is his first language.
 

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zobelo said:
and also the girl called me and said she hadn't calld me before because she was afraid of my reaction and was pregenant of me and she will come to me the next saturday.
Let's just say the girl leaving you for her ex is the least of your worries.
 
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