"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my girlfiend has gone because of her ex

zobelo

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in fact i've been dating a pretty young girl of 20's.
but the girl had a baby and was still in relation with her boyfriend.
But the girl fell in love with me and she couldn't hide it.
and the girl and her boyfriend are school dropout. (primary school)
and i got a university degree.
and the girl was living with her big sister in my neighborhood near me.
so each time she was with me. if she didn't see me she couldn't sleep.
our relation was very cool and tight so that even when her boyfriend came or called her she didn't care about it.
i knew the girl was really loving me. but one day she got a real quarrel with her elder and she decided to move on. and i gave her masive advices in which she had to stay.
she was very happy cuz of my advices and she decided to stay.
but suprisingly the next day her boyfriend came and after his departure the girl moved on and where? somewhere a place her boyfriend rentfor her.

Ps: she told me before she wasn't anymore with her boyfriend.
the day of her departure i blamed her of her behaviour and she took it badly.
she didn't i,form me when she went.

but i wanted to take the bull by its horn so i called her boyfriend and put my trap on. i asked him many questions which ended by good results. and the boy afraid called the girl. and also the girl called me and said she hadn't calld me before because she was afraid of my reaction and was pregenant of me and she will come to me the next saturday.

what to do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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blackbelt2k

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famous words..."can't turn a H0 into a housewife"...ask for a paternity test..this chick obviously has issues, and if you let her suck you down, your degree won't mean jack when your taking care of her ex's TWO kids...come on, you know they hooked up, and you know he got her preg again..my advice, leave while there is a way out...
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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SUUURE you have your university degree. YOU seriously type like THE primary school dropout.

in other words... what the hell are you talking about???
 

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well my degree isn't in english..its in aerospace engineering...so unless you want the next rocket sent to the moon aimed at your house, RELAX.. anyway, I was only trying to make light of the fact that the kid probably isn't his, and that this girl comes with mental, emotional, and physical baggage that he probably doesn't need in his life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Michele said:
SUUURE you have your university degree. YOU seriously type like THE primary school dropout.

in other words... what the hell are you talking about???
I doubt english is his first language.
 

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zobelo said:
and also the girl called me and said she hadn't calld me before because she was afraid of my reaction and was pregenant of me and she will come to me the next saturday.
Let's just say the girl leaving you for her ex is the least of your worries.
 
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