"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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it sounds like you think shes your girlfriend, but she really isnt. and im guessing theres a good chance she has a boyfriend.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Does anyone else read some issues with this given the other things Industry has told us? Reformed "nice guys" who went on dates often may see it.
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If she comes from a bad background and lives in the ghetto, maybe she's embarrased about where she lives, and doesn't want him to see it, and that's why she has to pick him up at pep boys. The only girl I would pick up at Pep Boys would be an "escort" aka hooker. To never let a guy see your house could mean 1)Very shy and embarrased about her house 2) does not want you in her life.

There's just too much of a difference here between these two. It's not a match made in heaven.
 
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There's just too much of a difference here between these two. It's not a match made in heaven.
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Perhaps, but what's interesting is that she feels that she doesn't deserve how he is treating her. That typically happens when a person feels guilty. I'm wondering why she's feeling guilty.
 
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She does kind of live in the ghetto. I live in Newport Beach and she lives up in Pasedena. I've seen the outside of her house but never the inside. I'm not allowed inside!!!! I don't think she was raised in a good home and it probably has something to do with the fact that she "doesnt deserve" something better. I don't think it's linked to guilt as much as it is low self-esteem. It sad though because if she would just get over a few things she'd be a really good girl.

To be honest, I'm not sure why I'm hanging onto her as much as I am. I know I can do better but there's something about her that intrigues me. I'm going on 3 dates this week with different women and we'll see what happens.
 
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