"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My GF wants to take pills and have sex without a condom.

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OMG... This girl is 32, I'm 23. I might be a little bit paranoid, but I think she is scheming to get pregnant so I have to marry her... :eek:
I mean, I'm not terribly attracted to her and she knows this... I'm seeing other girls along with her (she doesn't know this).

I don't trust her very much on this...

Do you guys I'm too crazy and should enjoy condom-free sex or that I'm not that paranoid???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NEVER EVER EVER trust women on this.....i've heard enough horror stories about women telling their guys they cant get pregnant and the next thing you know....a miracle has happened and she is pregnant....if you want to have sex without a condom do it at your own risk....or get involved in the study about the pill for guys....all it takes is one missed pill and the next thing coming out of her mouth will be "Starriol, you're going to be a daddy!"
 
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That's EXACTLY what my cousin's GF did to get pregnant of him. At 18 he became the father of 2 (twins). She was 28.

Enough said.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LEAVE HER RIGHT NOW!

If you even suspect that she's trying to get pregnant, you simply can't afford to trust her.

Women who want to get pregnant won't stop at lying about the pill. I've heard about women sabotaging their man's condoms, even digging used ones out of the trash, in order to get pregnant.

Don't let her try to convince you of her honesty. Don't let her talk you into wanting a kid. Don't let her make you feel bad about leaving her.

LEAVE HER RIGHT NOW!
Please, for the love of God, LEAVE HER!
 
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On a tangent, you wouldn't be fair to HER if you had sex without a condom when you're still sleeping around. If you get a STD from someone else, odds are very good that she will catch your STD when you don't use a condom.

The pill should only be an option if you're in a monogimous relationship.
 
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My stance on this is if you're not 100% willing to accept any and all consequences for your actions (kids, STDS, etc) then don't have sex. Are you so desperate to get laid that you run the risk of getting an STD and/or helping conceive a kid that you didn't want? It just doesn't make sense. sure, condoms help with both of these, but we all know that they can break and things can go horribly wrong.

Also, abortion shouldn't be an option. Why should another life have to be destroyed just because you weren't willing to be a man and accept your new responsibilities? To me, that is the epitome of selfishness.
 
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End It...

Now...
 
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I made a post in the discussion forum about this exactly same issue a while ago.

Women can be manipulative b!tches. Dont trsut them at all.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Youngblood her biological clock is ringing louder than a Tool concert.

Just explain to her you want to go from her backdoor to her frontdoor then drop the load in her mouth and see if no condoms is still such a great idea . . .
 
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When women hit their 30s (sometimes younger), they hear their biological clocks ticking. It's VERY likely that this is the motivation for using the (imaginary) pill.

They way I view it and always have, the condom goes out the door when you're wanting to have children. If you're not wanting children (or a disease), keep wearing the rubber. It's the only control you have (besides abstinance or vasectomy) when it comes to birth control. You hand the power of your sperm over to her if you quit using condoms.
 
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I did a search to try and find that Dr Phill video of when he had a guy on his show who went to cort for "mans right not to have childeren"

This post remainded me of how they ware saying that he had that right, and by taking off the condom he gave it away.....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you're stupid enough to believe her reasons.. I say go for it man!!!!

Yeah!

Don't listen to what happened to oother peoples here. Your situation is UNIQUE. It has not happened hundreds of thousads of times before. Hell NO!

Oh and forget about the fact that your girl wants to have a kid and a provider to tie you down. **** THAT! That's in NO WAY related to why she wants this. She's sooooo not desperate at ALL!

I say go for it.





Tool.
 
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Thanks guy... I guess if 100% of people tell you you are not paranoid, it's probably that way.

I'm gonna keep using condoms and I'll be VERY carefull about keeping my condoms with me and taking care they stay in my ****...

About leaving her... I need to think about that... it's an option...

Thanks a lot for the response guys!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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