"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My GF wants to take pills and have sex without a condom.

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OMG... This girl is 32, I'm 23. I might be a little bit paranoid, but I think she is scheming to get pregnant so I have to marry her... :eek:
I mean, I'm not terribly attracted to her and she knows this... I'm seeing other girls along with her (she doesn't know this).

I don't trust her very much on this...

Do you guys I'm too crazy and should enjoy condom-free sex or that I'm not that paranoid???
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NEVER EVER EVER trust women on this.....i've heard enough horror stories about women telling their guys they cant get pregnant and the next thing you know....a miracle has happened and she is pregnant....if you want to have sex without a condom do it at your own risk....or get involved in the study about the pill for guys....all it takes is one missed pill and the next thing coming out of her mouth will be "Starriol, you're going to be a daddy!"
 
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That's EXACTLY what my cousin's GF did to get pregnant of him. At 18 he became the father of 2 (twins). She was 28.

Enough said.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LEAVE HER RIGHT NOW!

If you even suspect that she's trying to get pregnant, you simply can't afford to trust her.

Women who want to get pregnant won't stop at lying about the pill. I've heard about women sabotaging their man's condoms, even digging used ones out of the trash, in order to get pregnant.

Don't let her try to convince you of her honesty. Don't let her talk you into wanting a kid. Don't let her make you feel bad about leaving her.

LEAVE HER RIGHT NOW!
Please, for the love of God, LEAVE HER!
 
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On a tangent, you wouldn't be fair to HER if you had sex without a condom when you're still sleeping around. If you get a STD from someone else, odds are very good that she will catch your STD when you don't use a condom.

The pill should only be an option if you're in a monogimous relationship.
 
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My stance on this is if you're not 100% willing to accept any and all consequences for your actions (kids, STDS, etc) then don't have sex. Are you so desperate to get laid that you run the risk of getting an STD and/or helping conceive a kid that you didn't want? It just doesn't make sense. sure, condoms help with both of these, but we all know that they can break and things can go horribly wrong.

Also, abortion shouldn't be an option. Why should another life have to be destroyed just because you weren't willing to be a man and accept your new responsibilities? To me, that is the epitome of selfishness.
 
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End It...

Now...
 
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I made a post in the discussion forum about this exactly same issue a while ago.

Women can be manipulative b!tches. Dont trsut them at all.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Youngblood her biological clock is ringing louder than a Tool concert.

Just explain to her you want to go from her backdoor to her frontdoor then drop the load in her mouth and see if no condoms is still such a great idea . . .
 
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When women hit their 30s (sometimes younger), they hear their biological clocks ticking. It's VERY likely that this is the motivation for using the (imaginary) pill.

They way I view it and always have, the condom goes out the door when you're wanting to have children. If you're not wanting children (or a disease), keep wearing the rubber. It's the only control you have (besides abstinance or vasectomy) when it comes to birth control. You hand the power of your sperm over to her if you quit using condoms.
 
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I did a search to try and find that Dr Phill video of when he had a guy on his show who went to cort for "mans right not to have childeren"

This post remainded me of how they ware saying that he had that right, and by taking off the condom he gave it away.....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you're stupid enough to believe her reasons.. I say go for it man!!!!

Yeah!

Don't listen to what happened to oother peoples here. Your situation is UNIQUE. It has not happened hundreds of thousads of times before. Hell NO!

Oh and forget about the fact that your girl wants to have a kid and a provider to tie you down. **** THAT! That's in NO WAY related to why she wants this. She's sooooo not desperate at ALL!

I say go for it.





Tool.
 
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Thanks guy... I guess if 100% of people tell you you are not paranoid, it's probably that way.

I'm gonna keep using condoms and I'll be VERY carefull about keeping my condoms with me and taking care they stay in my ****...

About leaving her... I need to think about that... it's an option...

Thanks a lot for the response guys!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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