"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My gf wants me to get tested STDS

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She was a virgin before me.

We've been having sex bareback for almost 6 months

and out of no where she wants me to get tested?


ive had sex with 3 girls before her, condom every time and have no symptoms ever. shes begging me to get tested but i think this is a blatant waste of my time


how do i handle this
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She probably got an STD from some other guy she's fvcking behind your back and got treated for it and now she's feeling guilty about it and hopes you didn't catch it.

That or you are such a smooth playa she's feeling insecure.

In anycase you just tell her point blank you aren't getting tested and if she doesn't like it there's the door.
 
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nubian-knight said:
She was a virgin before me.

We've been having sex bareback for almost 6 months

and out of no where she wants me to get tested?


ive had sex with 3 girls before her, condom every time and have no symptoms ever. shes begging me to get tested but i think this is a blatant waste of my time


how do i handle this
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Why not just do it. Maybe she saw some pix of a nasty STD online, maybe her cooch has been itchy or something, regardless, there's no harm in both of you getting tested. Small amount of time to ease any worries she may have.
 
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KontrollerX said:
She probably got an STD from some other guy she's fvcking behind your back and got treated for it and now she's feeling guilty about it and hopes you didn't catch it.

That or you are such a smooth playa she's feeling insecure.

In anycase you just tell her point blank you aren't getting tested and if she doesn't like it there's the door.
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I thought that may be the reason, that she picked something up from someone else but then i realized 1) theres been 0 evidence of cheating and 2) she needs to know if she has something for this upcoming vaccine shes getting, which she had mentioned various times before she asked me to get tested. The doctor said getting the vaccine if she has an active or dormant std could be really serious so she wants me and her to get tested


but i really dont have anything, im almost 110% sure


aaa fack
 
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nubian-knight said:
I thought that may be the reason, that she picked something up from someone else but then i realized 1) theres been 0 evidence of cheating and 2) she needs to know if she has something for this upcoming vaccine shes getting, which she had mentioned various times before she asked me to get tested. The doctor said getting the vaccine if she has an active or dormant std could be really serious so she wants me and her to get tested


but i really dont have anything, im almost 110% sure


aaa fack
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Why doesn't she get tested herself??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Go and get tested at the same time. It's fair and honest that you both know what you've got.
 
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BeyondCharm said:
Go and get tested at the same time. It's fair and honest that you both know what you've got.
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Yea i just called her and shes fine with that.

Shes pretty virginal and i think the doctor scaring her about the affects of getting the vaccine with a potential std scared her and since ive had sex before us and she hasnt she was worried.

i straiht up told her its her concern not mine, and wel do it at the same time, she said sure.

done w.e. prolly takes like 5 min anyway
 
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Just get tested, It's not a big deal. I don't know why this is such a big deal for everyone. It's not like they make you wear a scarlet letter. Just curious, but how come you aren't using condoms?
 
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I don't know why this is such a big deal for everyone.
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Nobody wants disease, especially not incurable and lethal ones, which some STDs are.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maxwell said:
Nobody wants disease, especially not incurable and lethal ones, which some STDs are.
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If you have a disease, not getting it treated is about the worst thing you can do. I've gotten tested twice. Yeah, it was stressful, but both times the results came back negative. The peace of mind was worth it in the end.
 
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J Roc said:
stop having sex bareback!
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Don't be a fvck up.

And never, ever believe that a woman is being honest about their sexual history. In an era of "reborn virgins" and men that don't count, her 0 could very well have a 1 in front of it.
 
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Dont bother getting tested unless you believe you've contracted something. To me, it only brings more stress submitting a test, awaiting the results, and AWHing after your test negative. If you've been playing safe, and nothing arwy has gone on, don't worry about it.
 
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Nothing wrong with getting tested.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AllInADaysWork said:
Dont bother getting tested unless you believe you've contracted something. To me, it only brings more stress submitting a test, awaiting the results, and AWHing after your test negative. If you've been playing safe, and nothing arwy has gone on, don't worry about it.
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terrible fvckin advice
 
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Get tested. Small price to pay for getting to put it in bare. Just make sure she's on the pill.
 
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