Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My gf wants me to get tested STDS

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She was a virgin before me.

We've been having sex bareback for almost 6 months

and out of no where she wants me to get tested?


ive had sex with 3 girls before her, condom every time and have no symptoms ever. shes begging me to get tested but i think this is a blatant waste of my time


how do i handle this
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She probably got an STD from some other guy she's fvcking behind your back and got treated for it and now she's feeling guilty about it and hopes you didn't catch it.

That or you are such a smooth playa she's feeling insecure.

In anycase you just tell her point blank you aren't getting tested and if she doesn't like it there's the door.
 
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nubian-knight said:
She was a virgin before me.

We've been having sex bareback for almost 6 months

and out of no where she wants me to get tested?


ive had sex with 3 girls before her, condom every time and have no symptoms ever. shes begging me to get tested but i think this is a blatant waste of my time


how do i handle this
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Why not just do it. Maybe she saw some pix of a nasty STD online, maybe her cooch has been itchy or something, regardless, there's no harm in both of you getting tested. Small amount of time to ease any worries she may have.
 
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KontrollerX said:
She probably got an STD from some other guy she's fvcking behind your back and got treated for it and now she's feeling guilty about it and hopes you didn't catch it.

That or you are such a smooth playa she's feeling insecure.

In anycase you just tell her point blank you aren't getting tested and if she doesn't like it there's the door.
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I thought that may be the reason, that she picked something up from someone else but then i realized 1) theres been 0 evidence of cheating and 2) she needs to know if she has something for this upcoming vaccine shes getting, which she had mentioned various times before she asked me to get tested. The doctor said getting the vaccine if she has an active or dormant std could be really serious so she wants me and her to get tested


but i really dont have anything, im almost 110% sure


aaa fack
 
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nubian-knight said:
I thought that may be the reason, that she picked something up from someone else but then i realized 1) theres been 0 evidence of cheating and 2) she needs to know if she has something for this upcoming vaccine shes getting, which she had mentioned various times before she asked me to get tested. The doctor said getting the vaccine if she has an active or dormant std could be really serious so she wants me and her to get tested


but i really dont have anything, im almost 110% sure


aaa fack
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Why doesn't she get tested herself??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Go and get tested at the same time. It's fair and honest that you both know what you've got.
 
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BeyondCharm said:
Go and get tested at the same time. It's fair and honest that you both know what you've got.
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Yea i just called her and shes fine with that.

Shes pretty virginal and i think the doctor scaring her about the affects of getting the vaccine with a potential std scared her and since ive had sex before us and she hasnt she was worried.

i straiht up told her its her concern not mine, and wel do it at the same time, she said sure.

done w.e. prolly takes like 5 min anyway
 
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Just get tested, It's not a big deal. I don't know why this is such a big deal for everyone. It's not like they make you wear a scarlet letter. Just curious, but how come you aren't using condoms?
 
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I don't know why this is such a big deal for everyone.
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Nobody wants disease, especially not incurable and lethal ones, which some STDs are.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maxwell said:
Nobody wants disease, especially not incurable and lethal ones, which some STDs are.
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If you have a disease, not getting it treated is about the worst thing you can do. I've gotten tested twice. Yeah, it was stressful, but both times the results came back negative. The peace of mind was worth it in the end.
 
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J Roc said:
stop having sex bareback!
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Don't be a fvck up.

And never, ever believe that a woman is being honest about their sexual history. In an era of "reborn virgins" and men that don't count, her 0 could very well have a 1 in front of it.
 
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Dont bother getting tested unless you believe you've contracted something. To me, it only brings more stress submitting a test, awaiting the results, and AWHing after your test negative. If you've been playing safe, and nothing arwy has gone on, don't worry about it.
 
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Nothing wrong with getting tested.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AllInADaysWork said:
Dont bother getting tested unless you believe you've contracted something. To me, it only brings more stress submitting a test, awaiting the results, and AWHing after your test negative. If you've been playing safe, and nothing arwy has gone on, don't worry about it.
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terrible fvckin advice
 
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Get tested. Small price to pay for getting to put it in bare. Just make sure she's on the pill.
 
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