My GF is addicted to RPG online!

[Scorpio6913]

I don't know the name of the game, but it has to do with Vampires etc.
She claims to be in it for the fashion & friends, however, she jokingly tells me stories of male players inviting her into private rooms where they begin sex talk. She claims that she doesn't indulge them (laughing while describing to me what they say) but plays/messes with them before diconnecting. I respond saying it sounds like a sex game to which she denies & claims that any online RPG games will have some people doing this, also that it is only "Role playing".
I already know from her admission, that she spends hours of her free time playing this game & that a lot of the players are much younger(early twentys) than her.
Does anyone here know much about these online RPG games? Should I be concerned of her cheating on me?
We've only been dating for about 5 months & there has not been a lot of sex between us, maybe because she is getting sexual stimulation from this?
Thanks for your insights in advance!

 

[MyTeamSupreme]

if she prefers to chat it up with some cyber geeks that probably look like

then she isnt the girl for you

 

[Alle_Gory]

We've only been dating for about 5 months & there has not been a lot of sex between us, maybe because she is getting sexual stimulation from this?

Give her some time alone and see what happens. Just disappear for a week with no contact ( no phone, no text, no email, no smoke signals... nothing ). See how long it takes her to notice. If it takes more than a few days you have your answer.

I have no idea why you would want to be with someone who's not interested in you.

 

[Scorpio6913]

Give her some time alone and see what happens. Just disappear for a week with no contact ( no phone, no text, no email, no smoke signals... nothing ). See how long it takes her to notice. If it takes more than a few days you have your answer.

I have no idea why you would want to be with someone who's not interested in you.

I have done no contact & she ends up calling me at work, home ect within a day..
I just don't get why she would even tell me these things??

 

[Alle_Gory]

I have done no contact & she ends up calling me at work, home ect within a day..
I just don't get why she would even tell me these things??

Well that's good at least. Maybe she wants your attention? This is a really disrespectful way of showing it though.

 

[Scorpio6913]

Well that's good at least. Maybe she wants your attention? This is a really disrespectful way of showing it though.

I never thought of that Alle, as a matter of fact, she just contacted me today after me not contacting her for over a day & this is when she brings it up. Thanks for your insight! I'm just surprised a 36 year old woman would do that...

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Whatever you decide, you should probably start having more sex with your GF. She sounds like she's kinda bored, playing Vampire RPGs and all.

 

[Slickster]

Sounds like she's wasting her life on vids and you might be wasting yours on her.

 

[jax871]

She sounds like shes fat.....

 

[Scorpio6913]

Sounds like she's wasting her life on vids and you might be wasting yours on her.

This is what worries me..
I think at times she would rather play then talk on the phone with me, or have me come over, although she hasn't said so, her actions speak louder.
She also refers to a lot of the male players as her "Buddy". Just yesterday she told me someone with a name like "Hot sex guy" from our area sent her a friends request, while I was on the phone with her, while she was at work. She then said she ignored it, but I'll never really know.
But what really got me is how she described what one guy said to her & how she responded, it was clearly something inappropriate, she thought it was funny, but she accepted going into a private room with him in the first place.
Does anyone else here think this is appropriate??? How can I rectify this without dumping her?