"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My friend needs help

Shot Callin

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yeah so, my friend needs help. He's an alright looking guy and a pretty solid wing man, but the dude has yellow teeth! I'm trying to convince him to fix it by going to the dentist and getting professional whitening, but he doesn't seem to want to.

I'm trying to convince him so I need some help from you DJs out there. What can I tell him? What do you think when you see a dude or girl with yellow a$$ teeth? Any experiences you have had with this that might help him to understand what other people are thinking?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Caveman

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Ask him why he doesn't want to. This might be more important to him than the benefits of having it done. If his reason is solid, just leave it at that and don't push him. If it doesn't bother him and he feels fine with them, chances are that other people won't notice or mind that much.

If his reasons are not solid, you might be able to wave-off his *****ass reasons and talk him into doing it anyway.
 

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Isnt that shlt bad for your teeth, tears up your enamel or something? Do some research and let us know.

Yellow teeth on a girl = gross.
Instant NEXT.
 

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Originally posted by kidorbital
Isnt that shlt bad for your teeth, tears up your enamel or something? Do some research and let us know.
As far as I know, the professional dental stuff is fine. If you use the cheaper over the counter stuff it can be bad for your enamel.
 

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He might not want to because of the cost... dental whitening costs around 700+, whereas Crest Whitestrips are 30 bucks. I recommend going on eBay and getting the Dentist's only version of the whitestrips - Crest whitestrips pro - that the dentists give out for 100 bucks...

Yellow teeth are a definite no-no. You may as well tell him to get fat and pasty white while he's at it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NatureGuy

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Regular dental office cleanings (every 6 months) should take care of that. I wouldn't advice the chemical treatments.
 

Hollowpoint

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Saw a optic laser thingy option on TV.

Check out that option.
 
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