"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My friend needs help

Shot Callin

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yeah so, my friend needs help. He's an alright looking guy and a pretty solid wing man, but the dude has yellow teeth! I'm trying to convince him to fix it by going to the dentist and getting professional whitening, but he doesn't seem to want to.

I'm trying to convince him so I need some help from you DJs out there. What can I tell him? What do you think when you see a dude or girl with yellow a$$ teeth? Any experiences you have had with this that might help him to understand what other people are thinking?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Caveman

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Ask him why he doesn't want to. This might be more important to him than the benefits of having it done. If his reason is solid, just leave it at that and don't push him. If it doesn't bother him and he feels fine with them, chances are that other people won't notice or mind that much.

If his reasons are not solid, you might be able to wave-off his *****ass reasons and talk him into doing it anyway.
 

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Isnt that shlt bad for your teeth, tears up your enamel or something? Do some research and let us know.

Yellow teeth on a girl = gross.
Instant NEXT.
 

Shot Callin

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Originally posted by kidorbital
Isnt that shlt bad for your teeth, tears up your enamel or something? Do some research and let us know.
As far as I know, the professional dental stuff is fine. If you use the cheaper over the counter stuff it can be bad for your enamel.
 

diablo

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He might not want to because of the cost... dental whitening costs around 700+, whereas Crest Whitestrips are 30 bucks. I recommend going on eBay and getting the Dentist's only version of the whitestrips - Crest whitestrips pro - that the dentists give out for 100 bucks...

Yellow teeth are a definite no-no. You may as well tell him to get fat and pasty white while he's at it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NatureGuy

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Regular dental office cleanings (every 6 months) should take care of that. I wouldn't advice the chemical treatments.
 

Hollowpoint

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Saw a optic laser thingy option on TV.

Check out that option.
 
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