"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My friend is an actual 40 year old virgin. How should he go about setting up his first time?

corrector

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I didn't know this was you...you said your friend. Put up a story like that on social media and on app dating sites.

It really sounds interesting and should get some traction.

You should be true to yourself and then true love will find you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I didn't know this was you...you said your friend. Put up a story like that on social media and on app dating sites.

It really sounds interesting and should get some traction.

You should be true to yourself and then true love will find you.
I'm not saying it's me.
 

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Banging just for the sake of banging is a waste of time

everyone is chasing this idea to bang as many women as possible , but the reality is that if you are not “thirsty” for thAt girl , you will not really feel like f8cking her like an Olympian athlete . You will be lazy as hell . After you put it inside her the first time , you will loose your mood to actually continue f8cking her

most of the guys that want to achieve this status , to bang as many women as possible or something like , usually have problems with their self esteem

I think that is more worthwhile to try to fix this the self esteem issues , than going to a quest that is a waste of time
 

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Is that what you would do if you were looking to make up for lost time?
I am planning to pay for sex as my main source of sex. Some of us just need to do that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Parallelophone

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Banging just for the sake of banging is a waste of time

everyone is chasing this idea to bang as many women as possible , but the reality is that if you are not “thirsty” for thAt girl , you will not really feel like f8cking her like an Olympian athlete . You will be lazy as hell . After you put it inside her the first time , you will loose your mood to actually continue f8cking her

most of the guys that want to achieve this status , to bang as many women as possible or something like , usually have problems with their self esteem

I think that is more worthwhile to try to fix this the self esteem issues , than going to a quest that is a waste of time
But what about the years of sex you missed out on? What should you do to make up for that?
 

Epicwinguy

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Banging just for the sake of banging is a waste of time

everyone is chasing this idea to bang as many women as possible , but the reality is that if you are not “thirsty” for thAt girl , you will not really feel like f8cking her like an Olympian athlete . You will be lazy as hell . After you put it inside her the first time , you will loose your mood to actually continue f8cking her

most of the guys that want to achieve this status , to bang as many women as possible or something like , usually have problems with their self esteem

I think that is more worthwhile to try to fix this the self esteem issues , than going to a quest that is a waste of time
Bull****. Any endeavor in life can be considered a waste of time if you have no interest in it. But men have a biological urge to ****.
 

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Bull****. Any endeavor in life can be considered a waste of time if you have no interest in it. But men have a biological urge to ****.
true .Nothing is worthwhile enough to plunge all your energy only into one direction

as An example Americans and the advanced capitalist countries are living to make money , not making money to live
 

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But what about the years of sex you missed out on? What should you do to make up for that?
mainly this is in your head and makes you frustrated , thus making you want to make up for it

most of the times , if you do other worthwhile things , you will not feel the need to make up for a dry spell let”s say . You will be more like , “ it would be great if I could smash something now ”

from experience , only chasing a$$ makes you quite sad about yourself after a while
 
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