"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My friend is an actual 40 year old virgin. How should he go about setting up his first time?

corrector

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I didn't know this was you...you said your friend. Put up a story like that on social media and on app dating sites.

It really sounds interesting and should get some traction.

You should be true to yourself and then true love will find you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I didn't know this was you...you said your friend. Put up a story like that on social media and on app dating sites.

It really sounds interesting and should get some traction.

You should be true to yourself and then true love will find you.
I'm not saying it's me.
 

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Banging just for the sake of banging is a waste of time

everyone is chasing this idea to bang as many women as possible , but the reality is that if you are not “thirsty” for thAt girl , you will not really feel like f8cking her like an Olympian athlete . You will be lazy as hell . After you put it inside her the first time , you will loose your mood to actually continue f8cking her

most of the guys that want to achieve this status , to bang as many women as possible or something like , usually have problems with their self esteem

I think that is more worthwhile to try to fix this the self esteem issues , than going to a quest that is a waste of time
 

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Is that what you would do if you were looking to make up for lost time?
I am planning to pay for sex as my main source of sex. Some of us just need to do that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Parallelophone

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Banging just for the sake of banging is a waste of time

everyone is chasing this idea to bang as many women as possible , but the reality is that if you are not “thirsty” for thAt girl , you will not really feel like f8cking her like an Olympian athlete . You will be lazy as hell . After you put it inside her the first time , you will loose your mood to actually continue f8cking her

most of the guys that want to achieve this status , to bang as many women as possible or something like , usually have problems with their self esteem

I think that is more worthwhile to try to fix this the self esteem issues , than going to a quest that is a waste of time
But what about the years of sex you missed out on? What should you do to make up for that?
 

Epicwinguy

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Banging just for the sake of banging is a waste of time

everyone is chasing this idea to bang as many women as possible , but the reality is that if you are not “thirsty” for thAt girl , you will not really feel like f8cking her like an Olympian athlete . You will be lazy as hell . After you put it inside her the first time , you will loose your mood to actually continue f8cking her

most of the guys that want to achieve this status , to bang as many women as possible or something like , usually have problems with their self esteem

I think that is more worthwhile to try to fix this the self esteem issues , than going to a quest that is a waste of time
Bull****. Any endeavor in life can be considered a waste of time if you have no interest in it. But men have a biological urge to ****.
 

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Bull****. Any endeavor in life can be considered a waste of time if you have no interest in it. But men have a biological urge to ****.
true .Nothing is worthwhile enough to plunge all your energy only into one direction

as An example Americans and the advanced capitalist countries are living to make money , not making money to live
 

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But what about the years of sex you missed out on? What should you do to make up for that?
mainly this is in your head and makes you frustrated , thus making you want to make up for it

most of the times , if you do other worthwhile things , you will not feel the need to make up for a dry spell let”s say . You will be more like , “ it would be great if I could smash something now ”

from experience , only chasing a$$ makes you quite sad about yourself after a while
 
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