"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My friend is an actual 40 year old virgin. How should he go about setting up his first time?

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I didn't know this was you...you said your friend. Put up a story like that on social media and on app dating sites.

It really sounds interesting and should get some traction.

You should be true to yourself and then true love will find you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I didn't know this was you...you said your friend. Put up a story like that on social media and on app dating sites.

It really sounds interesting and should get some traction.

You should be true to yourself and then true love will find you.
I'm not saying it's me.
 

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Banging just for the sake of banging is a waste of time

everyone is chasing this idea to bang as many women as possible , but the reality is that if you are not “thirsty” for thAt girl , you will not really feel like f8cking her like an Olympian athlete . You will be lazy as hell . After you put it inside her the first time , you will loose your mood to actually continue f8cking her

most of the guys that want to achieve this status , to bang as many women as possible or something like , usually have problems with their self esteem

I think that is more worthwhile to try to fix this the self esteem issues , than going to a quest that is a waste of time
 

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Is that what you would do if you were looking to make up for lost time?
I am planning to pay for sex as my main source of sex. Some of us just need to do that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Banging just for the sake of banging is a waste of time

everyone is chasing this idea to bang as many women as possible , but the reality is that if you are not “thirsty” for thAt girl , you will not really feel like f8cking her like an Olympian athlete . You will be lazy as hell . After you put it inside her the first time , you will loose your mood to actually continue f8cking her

most of the guys that want to achieve this status , to bang as many women as possible or something like , usually have problems with their self esteem

I think that is more worthwhile to try to fix this the self esteem issues , than going to a quest that is a waste of time
But what about the years of sex you missed out on? What should you do to make up for that?
 

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Banging just for the sake of banging is a waste of time

everyone is chasing this idea to bang as many women as possible , but the reality is that if you are not “thirsty” for thAt girl , you will not really feel like f8cking her like an Olympian athlete . You will be lazy as hell . After you put it inside her the first time , you will loose your mood to actually continue f8cking her

most of the guys that want to achieve this status , to bang as many women as possible or something like , usually have problems with their self esteem

I think that is more worthwhile to try to fix this the self esteem issues , than going to a quest that is a waste of time
Bull****. Any endeavor in life can be considered a waste of time if you have no interest in it. But men have a biological urge to ****.
 

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Bull****. Any endeavor in life can be considered a waste of time if you have no interest in it. But men have a biological urge to ****.
true .Nothing is worthwhile enough to plunge all your energy only into one direction

as An example Americans and the advanced capitalist countries are living to make money , not making money to live
 

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But what about the years of sex you missed out on? What should you do to make up for that?
mainly this is in your head and makes you frustrated , thus making you want to make up for it

most of the times , if you do other worthwhile things , you will not feel the need to make up for a dry spell let”s say . You will be more like , “ it would be great if I could smash something now ”

from experience , only chasing a$$ makes you quite sad about yourself after a while
 
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