TheManMasenko
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Hey...I recently had a plate of 1 month, distancing herself. (Plate = women I'm currently seeing plus want a relationship with). I'm bummed over this situation.
My "friend" is a guy I knew in high school, we played video games, smoke weed, went out, and actually met some women together. We used to back in 2022 before I had my girlfriend. My ex never liked him she would things like "he wants you single so you can go out with him." But I never paid too much of that in mind. By his actions, I can tell (or get the feeling) he's a stand-up. When I was in this altercation, he was there for me. Despite that, I used to feel like I needed him in times of danger, which I know now is not unnecessary and should never be the case.
Since my break up w/ my ex- I realized the hardship of being single. I went out (2023) with the "friend" but I realized he was more socially awkward and lacked more social skills than me. This year alone we went to multiple venues and each night did not score. This alone makes me realize my ex...maybe had a point...and made me realize I wasted an opportunity. Plus, when I go out by myself I enjoy my time better.
Anyway, the deal is whenever I bring him around women, I feel him to be envious. Since he has not had meaningful relationships with the quality (beautiful) of women compared to myself. I've seen him f*** fat women, ugly women, *****s, etc etc. Plus, I'm shorter than him..I'm sure that has to play a role in it too because he always talks about my height and says I can grow still (I'm 22).
I did a double date w/ the plate for the first time with my friend and his date, he kept saying to me (and my plate could hear easily), "did you f*** her yet?" "*Name*, that's all you boy!" etc. It was embarrassing. I tell him to politely stop, but he keeps going.
Recently, I was talking to him on the phone while w/ my plate. She could hear everything. My "friend" is talking about women ain't s***, women lie, etc and how's he going to f*** some more women. My plate hears this and becomes upset saying "You can't have him around".
Fast forward, the plate knows my ex is in my current class. My "friend" asked me (while the plate is there), "How's it's going between us (my ex and I)?" I even named dropped this other person that he knows, but he acts to not know who this person is... I get a feeling he's plotting on my ex (since the person I named and my ex are linked). He's being discreet with women and other stuff too...I just feel like cutting him off completely.
Anyways, the plate said to me "My friends don't think you are serious since you are still connected with your ex. I need time alone."
Meanwhile...I tell my "friend" and he says H*** ain't s****.
I'm too mature for this...what's your advice
My "friend" is a guy I knew in high school, we played video games, smoke weed, went out, and actually met some women together. We used to back in 2022 before I had my girlfriend. My ex never liked him she would things like "he wants you single so you can go out with him." But I never paid too much of that in mind. By his actions, I can tell (or get the feeling) he's a stand-up. When I was in this altercation, he was there for me. Despite that, I used to feel like I needed him in times of danger, which I know now is not unnecessary and should never be the case.
Since my break up w/ my ex- I realized the hardship of being single. I went out (2023) with the "friend" but I realized he was more socially awkward and lacked more social skills than me. This year alone we went to multiple venues and each night did not score. This alone makes me realize my ex...maybe had a point...and made me realize I wasted an opportunity. Plus, when I go out by myself I enjoy my time better.
Anyway, the deal is whenever I bring him around women, I feel him to be envious. Since he has not had meaningful relationships with the quality (beautiful) of women compared to myself. I've seen him f*** fat women, ugly women, *****s, etc etc. Plus, I'm shorter than him..I'm sure that has to play a role in it too because he always talks about my height and says I can grow still (I'm 22).
I did a double date w/ the plate for the first time with my friend and his date, he kept saying to me (and my plate could hear easily), "did you f*** her yet?" "*Name*, that's all you boy!" etc. It was embarrassing. I tell him to politely stop, but he keeps going.
Recently, I was talking to him on the phone while w/ my plate. She could hear everything. My "friend" is talking about women ain't s***, women lie, etc and how's he going to f*** some more women. My plate hears this and becomes upset saying "You can't have him around".
Fast forward, the plate knows my ex is in my current class. My "friend" asked me (while the plate is there), "How's it's going between us (my ex and I)?" I even named dropped this other person that he knows, but he acts to not know who this person is... I get a feeling he's plotting on my ex (since the person I named and my ex are linked). He's being discreet with women and other stuff too...I just feel like cutting him off completely.
Anyways, the plate said to me "My friends don't think you are serious since you are still connected with your ex. I need time alone."
Meanwhile...I tell my "friend" and he says H*** ain't s****.
I'm too mature for this...what's your advice
